Another example is when Odysseus confronts Scylla and Charybdis. Circe advice and warns Odysseus to not fight Scylla, as she is immortal, and stay close to her and push on. Instead Odysseus decides to arm himself and not inform his men of what awaits them, to avoid panic, even though it may cost the lives of six men rather than risk the loss of his entire ship in the whirlpool of Charybdis.
Additionally, in Book 5, when Odysseus encounters Ino, who tries to help him off the raft that he clung to during the storm made by Poseidon, he declines her assistance as he believes he is already close to home and that Ino is only delaying his progress.
We see Odysseus’ strength during the meeting of the Lotus Eaters, by his own free will, he saves his crew who disobey him due to being subdued by the lotus plant.
However, it is often that Odysseus is unable to do things on his own. For seven years he has been held against his will by the nymph Calypso and required the help of the gods to intervene as well as having Calypso to provide supplies and resources to build a raft to leave the island.
When Odysseus was about to rescue his crew from Circe’s spell, he uses the help and guidance of Hermes, by gaining the moly plant to be immune to Circe’s powers. Then he needed the help of Circe’s on how to enter the Underworld to see Tiresias and how to survive Scylla and Charybdis. Odysseus goes to Tiresias for help what he is supposed to do once he get home.
There were moments where Odysseus was unable to help his men, such as having his six of his best eaten by Scylla and devoured by the cannibal giants and Polyphemus. He was even powerless to stop his men from eating the Sun God’s cattle. His men, at times, were Odysseus’ assistance, helping Odysseus make a pike to injure Polyphemus and encourage Odysseus to leave Circe’s island.
The goddess Athene played a crucial role for Odysseus’ safety, such as: disguising Odysseus as a beggar, helping him in the land of the Phaeacians as a young girl to safely guide him to the king of Phaeacia, due to the islander’s xenophobia. The princess Nausicaa, of the Phaeacians, and her servants assisted Odysseus when he washed upon their shore and gave him directions to her father. Without the Phaeacians, Odysseus would have not been able to reach home on his own without any supplies or resources.
There were times where Odysseus did things his own way but needed the assistance of the gods and others to be able to achieve his goal.