Comment closely on "The Going" (by Thomas Hardy) paying particular attention to the ways in which Hardy expresses a sense of grief.

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The Going

Thomas Hardy conveys the grieving of Emma’s death through his elegy where he irritably questions her “fleeing” and recollects memories of their courtship in an hopeless attempt to strengthen his grasp on “the swan-necked one who rode”. Deaths fragility is illustrated as Hardy extensively stresses the ease of Emma’s passing and his unsatisfied desire of a “hint” that “that night” she’d go “up and be gone”. Hardy almost appears unaware of the years passed distanced from his wife until the fifth stanza, suggesting her death has the effect of a virtual awakening, allowing him to finally accept it, yet not settle from mourning it ,as is made evident by the following 1912-13 poems.

The Repetition of “Why” beginning the first, third, and fifth stanza illustrate Hardy’s rejection of Emma’s death, probably resulting from the regret of not having taken advantage of the time she was alive. Hardy feels Emma “calmly” died with “indifference”, giving way to intense feelings of remorse in the following stanza’s. His suspicion of her carelessness is further highlighted in the second stanza as she is described to have “never to bid goodbye” - “or lip [him] the softest call”. Emma’s apparent alienation of hardy suggests she deliberately left him in response to “those days long dead” where she was as good as dead to Hardy.

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Moreover Hardy remains unsettled by the fact that death or Emma offered “no hint” of her “going”. Deaths unexpectedness emphasizes its fragility, and tendency to “quickly - and calmly” occur at any “moment, and alter all”. The use of the oxymoron, “quickly - and calmly” to describe death may suggest Hardy’s state of confusion due to the swiftness of it all happening, as well as him actually not knowing how she died because he was not there. In addition the aural imagery created through the use of the monosyllabic words, “up and be gone”, has the effect of emphasizing ...

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