Irreconcilable Differences in Jane Eyre and Wide Sargasso Sea

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Irreconcilable Differences in Jane Eyre and Wide Sargasso Sea

Differences between women in Charlotte Bronte’s Jane Eyre and Jean Rhys’ Wide Sargasso Sea can cause pain which can lead to tragedies. Throughout both novels; females have had differences with other females, especially when it is between children and maternal figures. Mothers are said to be role models and have unconditional love for their daughters however in these two novels it seems not. In Jane Eyre, irreconcilable differences are presented between Jane and Mrs Reed. Mrs Reed is her auntie but is not blood related. Jane’s real mother died when Jane was very young and so Mrs Reed has raised her but in a very distant and cold hearted way. In Wide Sargasso Sea Annette is Antoinette’s biological mother but she treats her as an outsider.  Antoinette’s life is shaped by her relationship with her mother.  She is defined by her.  

In my extract, Jane is at Gateshead once again but as a mature, young woman. Mrs Reed is at her death bed and has requested to see Jane. She tells Jane to read a letter which is from an uncle from the Eyre side of the family. Mrs Reed has hidden this because of her jealousy towards Jane. Jane questions why she has never seen this letter before. Mrs Reed responds in an aggressive way yet Jane apologises and tries to make things right. This shows no matter what Jane does Mrs Reed still looks down on her and won’t forgive her. Mrs Reed, still after all this time rejects Jane and Jane still isn’t accepted.

 Similarly, in the extract I have chosen in Wide Sargasso Sea, Antoinette is also rejected by her mother: Annette.  At the beginning of the passage Aunt Cora is looking after Antoinette. Aunt Cora is another motherly figure to her. Antoinette visits her mother with Christophine. She trusts Christophine and only chooses her to visit her mother. She doesn’t feel comfortable with other people but only Christophine. Christophine is another of Antoinette’s motherly figures. When Antoinette visits her mother she offers a lot of affection but all her mother can think about is her lost child Pierre.  Rhys shows Annette pushing Antoinette away and rejecting her physically as well as emotionally.

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Bronte’s attitude suggests female family relationships are Jealous and hostile. However Rhys’ attitude is that of rejection and the wanting of love and affection.  

In Jane Eyre, Bronte shows Mrs Reed a little deluded when she is on her death bed. In the extract Mrs Reed says my thoughts deceive me. I wished to see Jane Eyre, and I fancy a likeness where none exists: besides, in eight years she must be so changed. Mrs Reed is polite when she thinks she is talking to a stranger. Bronte shows us that Mrs Reed cares about what other people think ...

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