Couples (who can’t have children themselves) are able to have children. The perfection of life is most often combines with the destruction of it, and so, man must find ways to overcome natural difficulties including illness and diseases.
The technology is used for good and helps couples that are not able to have kids.
The embryos that are thrown away are not foetuses and their annihilation can be warranted by the policy of “double effect”, meaning a bad thing has to be done to result an ultimate good thing.
A donor does not need to give their egg or sperm to the couple, because if the couple have a problem inseminating the egg it can be done mechanically.
The excess eggs and sperm that are not used are discarded. This is like throwing away the materials for life, which some religions frown upon.
Some people believe that child has a right to know who their biological parents are and this is prevented in A.I.D. and surrogacy.
Couples seeking a child will go to great lengths to conceive one. They will bear the often humiliating forms of testing and treatment, which tear away at their dignity. They will accept financial burden, which they will carry for years. They will endure the stress, which enters their marriage. They will even risk the health hazards associated with fertility drugs and therapies. Also, if the husband is not able to produce enough sperm and the couple have to go with an A.I.D. the husband may feel less of a man after the child is born, and he may feel jealous ands angry.
Couples that have multiple births during their I.V.F. treatment usually suffer unnecessary anxiety, due to frequent lack of information given by the professionals.
For a childless couple, the practical and emotional difficulties of caring for two or more babies at the same time may be particularly difficult to imagine.