outline and evaluate the formation of relationships

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                         Outline and evaluate theories of the formation

                                   And maintenance of relationships

The formation of relationships refers to the process behind which we go from an initial attraction to a stage of commitment to the individual. Maintaining a relationship refers to those behaviours, skills and tactics which ensure that a relationship endures and resists dissolution.

The most commonly sighted theory behind the formation of relationships is known as the reinforcement affect model. This theory suggests that the formation and maintenance of relationships is based on the principles of classical and operant conditioning. According to Byrne and Core a relationship occurs when we are consistently reinforced and our psychological and physiological needs are rewarded. Direct rewards include sex, friendship, love etc.

Byrne and Clore suggest that classical conditioning can also play a role in the maintenance of relationships. They argue that we form a relationship with those we associate pleasant feelings, or outcomes with. The person themselves needn’t behave in a way to elicit positive emotion, in fact if one is in a good mood and consistently sees a particular person when in this mood, that person will become associated with pleasant emotion and an attraction to that person will develop.

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These concepts were investigated by May and Hamilton, who presented female participants with photographs of men of whom they had to rate. The independent variable in this study was the music that was played whilst rating was taking place. The music was either pleasant or unpleasant; there was also a control condition. They found when females were listening to pleasant music rating were significantly higher than when in an unpleasant condition. This suggests that mood can be associated with people which can either enhance of hinder attraction.

Though this was a lab experiment, from which causal relationships can be established ...

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