Thesis: Have you ever wondered why you couldn’t get a girl? You try to come up with so many ways and different approaches, but still got turned down. Well that’s all going to change because I will give you some steps on how to effectively approach a girl and possibly have a relationship.
Credibility Statement: Everyone gets turned down in life when it comes to the opposite sex.
Relevance Statement: Don’t think that you’re too good that you could get any girl because you will meet your match.
Reveal Topic: I have chosen to guide you step by step on how to effectively approach a girl and how to possibly have a relationship.
Preview of main points: You never come up to a girl by first glance because you’re basically setting yourself up failure. You want to first; study her, know what to say to her then finally, know your limits, but be straight forward with her.
Transition: Some of you guys might want to start taking notes on how this works.
- Study her
- By studying her you get her likes, dislikes her environment how she carries herself etc.
- See how she works under pressure whether its circumstances in her life or outside of her life you’re evaluating her.
- Notice who she hangs with like her friends or associates. That will give you a better outlook on how her personality is and her comfort ability zone.
- Know what to say
- No one wants to hear baby this or baby that, come up with something relating to what she’s doing and how you went about it verses what she did. That way she will figure out that you’re not all about getting her or perusing her yet.
- Try to look at her when you are talking. A woman loves a man who is confident at knows what he’s talking about and who is kind of smart. You are what they call opionated. Especially, if you know what you’re talking about she knows that you will be able to help her and vise versa.
- Ask her if she likes to go out. It doesn’t matter where you’re trying to get to know her and it’s better to get to know someone one when it’s only you and them.
- Know you limits, but be straight forward with her
- Tell her you like her and how you feel about her. Don’t be too aggressive because she might pull away, but give just enough for her to want more.
- If she is the right girl for you, you shouldn’t rush take your time and develop a bond with her, build a foundation something that’s concrete. Trust is a big factor if she’s going through a situation and calls you, you better pick up the phone.
- If you come across a different interest make sure you let her know and maybe you and her can still be friends. Don’t try to be Mr. Cool and have her and the other girl and maybe more because chances are they may find out and trust me, you don’t want to go down that route, unless you know how, but that’s a different lesson at a different time.
Transition: I have tried this process many times and I can say it works about eighty percent of the time, the other twenty of course is my good looks. But seriously, relationships are not a game if you are not ready for one, don’t look for one.
Thesis: Have you ever wondered why you couldn’t get a girl? You try to come up with so many ways and different approaches, but still get turned down. Well that’s all going to change because I will give you some steps on how to effectively approach a girl and possibly have a relationship.
Restate Main Points: So you won’t set yourself up for failure you want to first: study her, know what to say and finally, know your limits but be straight forward with her.
Closing Remark: If you fail, don’t give up, there are plenty of fish in the sea. Keep on trying.
