Presentation of Jackie from "My mother said I never should"

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Presentation of Jackie from “My mother said I never should”

Throughout the play we see Jackie portrayed in different ways, her characteristics change and we see her grow as a person.  Jackie as a child was very rebellious and through her life faces many challenges.  Firstly as a young mother then later with the loss of her mother.

As a young woman in her teens Jackie is very rebellious we first see this when Jackie tells Margaret that she has slept with her boyfriend.  Jackie tries to make Margaret feel guilty and that it was all her fault that she had slept with her boyfriend.  Her boyfriend parents allowed them to sleep together where as Margaret was against it, this is possibly going to make Jackie more likely to sleep with her boyfriend because it is against her mothers wishes.  Jackie and her mother do not communicate well.

When Jackie wanted to tell Margaret she was on the pill Margaret had no idea because she had refused to talk about it and Jackie had seen the doctor on her own.  This also shows Jackie’s independent and determined spirit and the need  to succeed on her own, especially when it comes to rising Rosie without her mothers help.

Although Jackie has to give Rosie up to her mother she is still very determined to finish art college because it is the one thing she can have and do well at without the help of her mother.  As an older woman we see Jackie feeling a failure, even though she is a very successful business woman.  Her feeling of failure come from her past; giving up Rosie as a baby.  “It doesn’t matter how much you succeed afterwards, if you’ve failed once.”  Jackie has missed all of Rosies growing up and Margaret explains that she cannot make up those lost years, they have gone and passed now.  “treats she’s had with you.”  Jackie feels extremely guilty because her daughter has grown up and she has missed everything.  Margaret tells Jackie “those are my years” meaning she has looked after Rosie all these years and Jackie does not realise what she has missed until she goes to Venice with Rosie.

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Jackies relationships with her mother, grandmother and daughter develop throughout the play.  The relationship that changes most, I think, is that between Jackie and Margaret.  As discussed before we saw a lack of communication between the two.  Margaret does not know that Jackie has slept with her boyfriend.  “You said ‘tell me while we go round the garden centre’….remember?!”  Margaret feels she has let her daughter and herself down because she did not listen to Jackie properly.

When Jackie is older she is concerned for her mother because Margaret was in pain.  Jackie may feel responsible for her ...

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