The main characteristics of the happy are goodwill, patience, responsibility, honesty and optimism. The one who has these characteristics has an ability to mesmerize others and make them gain such characteristics as well. The happy never distress or do not make others suffer from their baseless wishes, focus on the substantial things and are able to enjoy every minute of life. We can enjoy the pure happiness only in the case if we do a lot of to reach it.
If a person likes his work, he does not care about time and sort of vanish in the space. Ability to cope with work raises one’s self-esteem and self-confidence. Blighters are able to remain free from their work because they know that exhausting jobs take away their liveliness. They know how much time they can spend on relaxation and their dreams. Happiness is ability to balance between what one needs and what one can afford. So the most important thing is to find the happy medium. The happy find the joy even in little things and thus gain energy. They are capable to integrate short-term interests. Although they are communicative, they do not fall in close relationship with everyone but are frank, helpful and committed to their really close people. Happiness is somewhere beside us but we do not realize it. If we act, as we were happy, then we would be happy. We will have everything what we will truly believe in. No one can empoison your life except yourself. Our life is foredoomed by our actions, thoughts and decisions. We are the architects of our fates.
Almost everyone would agree that love is the propellant of our lives. But the one who loves has to have natural warmth of heart and good will. One has to feel respect to the love object and give oneself to it. Energy that lies doggo in love gives a drive to seek for perfection and helps to raise the soul. The surroundings mainly consist of physical, natural and spiritual goods. That’s why love is maintenance of these characteristics all together. The man who loves is like a bloomer, which adores not only itself but the whole ambience as well. Pure love is as tough that it can overcome death itself. It is not an entertainment but rather the highest form of existence that brings joie de vivre. Love is the mixture of suffers and bliss. To love and to be loved is an ability to experience the divine still and sizzling heat at the same time. The self of a man is in the man himself. A man is given thousands of opportunities, which can differently create their fate. It is called karma in the Eastern philosophy. To find one’s self means to find a sense of oneself in the fate. To loose the self means to loose the connection with oneself.
A man experiences periods in his life that help him to realize his opportunities and tactics. With the skill and experience a man gains in his life he makes a sense of his being. Being here and now is sot of school where one has to take exams time to time. If one passes the exam, one can go further up the mountain of evolution. If one fails the life goes down. It is said that a man can realize his self best when he is at his dying hour. However one can meet the end of the life by raving against one’s fate while the other can remain still and look back at one’s life by enjoying the fruits of it. To realize the purport of life is to feel satisfaction that everything you did is done well. If a man does not have will, resolution, persistence, he does not reach the aim and purport of his life.
To sum up, there are no miracles in life. Life is a miracle itself with love, happiness and purport of life in it.