Bathsheba's relationships

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Bathsheba has relationships with Boldwood, Troy and Oak; what does Each OF the relationships tell us about Bathsheba?

Far from the Madding Crowd was written in 1873 by Tomas Hardy. Hardy's books were mostly about love and people falling in love with the wrong people, this book is no exception. The book is set in the countryside of England, called Wessex. However Wessex is now made up of Dorset and Devon. Wessex in Hardy’s words was rustic in places and the setting was not very industrial. The story is about a young and beautiful lady called Bathsheba Everdene, and how she treats the different men who fall in love with her. The name Bathsheba comes from the wife of a biblical king called David, whose behaviour was at first naughty, irresponsible and immature. However through suffering she mended her ways. This Bathsheba is very like Bathsheba Everdene – someone who does not face her consequences. Gabriel Oak is a local farmer who is mesmerised by Bathsheba (love at first sight), he asks Bathsheba to marry him however Bathsheba rejects. The word ‘oak’ (his surname) makes you think of such qualities as endurance, strength and reliability. His Christian name is associated with the guardian angel Gabriel, who was said to watch over people. This reflects on Gabriel Oak's behaviour around Bathsheba during the book. Farmer Boldwood is another character in the book that is in love with Bathsheba. He is a quiet character whose lifestyle is very like a monk! Sergeant Francis Troy is a handsome young solider who is a complete contrast to Boldwood. His arrogance and charm soon win over Bathsheba's heart, so much so that she consents to marry him. During the book, Bathsheba’s character changes completely. She becomes more responsible because she has to                run her own farm. In the end she marries Gabriel Oak because she sees him as someone who can put some stability into her life. Also her other two lovers are out of the way, one is dead and the other is serving a life sentence for killing him!

Farmer Boldwood is the most important person living in Weatherbury. He is the tenant of Little Weatherbury Farm and is the closest person to the upper classes in Weatherbury. Boldwood's house is "Recessed from the road". His house has a sad, gloomy atmosphere to it. The house had "No light and there are "Cobwebbed windows". The house has "No careless touches" which suggests the absence of a female or any other form of company. When Boldwood was young he was jilted by a lady. This upset him so much that he vowed to have nothing to do with women. He lives in a state of "Equilibrium”, a state of perfect balence so he can stay calm. If he were to be disturbed from that state he would become completely obsessed. The words "Celibate" and "Meditate" are associated with monks. This is why I said in the introduction that Boldwood's lifestyle is similar to that of a monk. He lives isolated from society like a monk. After he has feed his animals all he does is pace up and down and "Meditate until it was dark. Boldwood would not make a particularly good husband for Bathsheba because of his inexperience with women. Boldwood "Could not read women" he, like Gabriel, would find it difficult to understand what Bathsheba wants. Boldwood does not fit the description of Bathsheba's ideal man at the time. He is not someone who is not exciting or romantic and his over obsessive behaviour could irritate Bathsheba.

            Bathsheba frivolously sent Boldwood a valentine card. The card also had a proposal of marriage on it. Boldwood acted upon this by proposing to Bathsheba. He uses emotional blackmail to try and persuade Bathsheba to marry him. He makes her feel guilty by saying it is her fault that he feels this way. He says "I should not have spoken out had I not been lead to hope". He only spoke about his feelings for Bathsheba rather than hers. It did not matter to him that she said she did not love him. He talked about how he would look after and how much she meant to him. I think she felt "Sympathy" for him because his feelings for her were so deep and it was her fault. He would not take no for an answer and in the end his persistence forced Bathsheba to promise to give him an answer. She prevaricated, when she should have given him a straight answer in the first place. This shows that Bathsheba is a risk-taking person; she flips a coin to decide whether she should send him a valentine or a little boy. She only decides to send one because at the sheep sheering day he was the only one who did not notice her. This shows she is attention-seeking and slightly arrogant. The fact that Bathsheba is attracted to him as a husband is not at all physical or sexual. It is more an acceptable marriage to have in society. Because Boldwood has a high status, this shows that Bathsheba is tempted into wanting to be superior to those around her which she would not get if she were to marry Oak or Troy. I think because Boldwood was so conserved, it stopped him from flattering Bathsheba which is at first all that Bathsheba wanted. ‘
It was a fatal omission of Boldwood's that he had never once told her she was beautiful’

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The character to fall in love with Bathsheba is Sergeant Francis Troy. He is a handsome young soldier who Bathsheba meets after she has vaguely agreed to marry Boldwood. Troy is a complete contrast to Boldwood both in character and personality. Troy's mother was a French Governess who worked in an aristocratic household. There she had an affair with "Lord Severn" which resulted in her becoming pregnant, which makes Troy and illegitimate child. (this reflects him having an illegitimate child with fanny) She lost her job and married a poor medical man. So "He's a doctor's son by name, ...

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