Describe Pip’s encounters with Miss Havisham and Estella, and show how the meetings affect his character and his relationships.

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Describe Pip's encounters with Miss Havisham and Estella, and show how the meetings affect his character and his relationships.

Puneet Khandelwal

At the start of the novel, Pip is an innocent boy who has been brought up to respect his elders and betters. He is a kind-hearted child as is seen in the episode in which he brings the convict the file and the food. He is also rather gullible and really believes that a terrible man will tear his liver out while he sleeps unless he does as he has been told. This gullibility can be seen again when he visits Miss Havisham's house, for the first time, and is taken in by the charms of Estella.

Pip first meets Miss Havisham when he goes to Satis House, to play. He sees her sitting in the candle lit room in her wedding dress and jewelry, sitting next to her dressing table. His first impression of her was that "she was the strangest lady I have ever seen, or shall ever see." He is shocked by what he sees and thinks of her as a "ghastly waxwork." He was "half afraid" and in an "uncomfortable state," during this meeting. Pip is told to play, by Miss Havisham, but Pip finds this rather difficult in the gloomy surroundings. Estella is sent for to play with Pip. Estella plays a game of cards with Pip, and during this she humiliates him. Estella insults Pip by calling him "a boy" when in actual fact they are both the same ages. Estella does this time and time again and Pip felt very stupid and clumsy after he dropped the cards while dealing them. While playing at cards, she comments on Pip being "common" and that he "calls Knaves, Jacks, this boy." Pip feels very nervous after this humiliation.
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Pip meets both Miss Havisham and Estella, again, six days later when he is told to explore the grounds of Satis House. Pip feels himself inferior of the lower status because Estella orders him, "you are to stand there, boy, till you are wanted." Then Estella makes him say that she is "very pretty" and then she asks him if she is insulting but suddenly slaps him around the face and calls him a "little coarse monster," which adds further insult to Pip. She then calls him "a boy" again in front of the other people who are ...

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