How does Shakespeare show the changing relationship between Juliet and her parents in Act 3 Scene 5?

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ABHINAV SINGH                11 ‘G’

BOSTON GRAMMAR SCHOOL                CENTRE NO- 26310

How does Shakespeare show the changing relationship between Juliet and her parents in Act 3 Scene 5?

At the beginning of Act 3 Scene 5, we know very little regarding the relationship between Juliet and her parents because there is very little contact between the two parties so far in the play. It seems that Shakespeare wants to emphasise this lack of contact, he wants the audience to understand that Juliet is quite distant from her parents. In the play leading up to this scene, Juliet has only had a brief conversation with her mother and hasn’t even talked to her father. These family conversations seem to be a rarity in the play. In Act 3 Scene 1, when Juliet talks to her mother, the relationship comes across as a formal one, not necessarily a loving one:

Madam I am here. What is your will?

        Automatically, it can be observed that the manner of speaking is how a servant may greet his master. It certainly shows obedience and respect, but in a true parental relationship, love always forms the foundations. However, at the time this sort of behaviour would be no surprise, the relationships were indeed very restricted. The parents played little part in raising their kids; the child’s care was the role of a nanny or nurse (even breast feeding was done by the nanny). Thus, the obvious bond of love that builds and strengthens through childhood between the parents and Juliet is missing. This sort of formality would seem strange to an audience today but it was common practice in the 1590s.

        Thus, the role of the Nurse is very important, throughout the play. The Nurse is the motherly figure for Juliet instead of Lady Capulet. Juliet in turn, is also very attached to the Nurse; over the years the two have confided in each other. This can be proven because frequently in the play, the Nurse makes crude yet loving jokes regarding Juliet’s upbringing:

Tis since the earthquake now eleven years,

And she was weaned – I shall never forget it.

        Comments like the one above show that the Nurse has fond memories of the past. Nurse goes on to reveal that Lord and Lady Capulet were away at Mantua

during the time of weaning, which shows an obvious lack of parental love. From all this, we can conclude that Shakespeare wants us to understand, the relationship between Juliet and her parents is very formal and sometimes superficial, whereas Juliet’s relationship with the Nurse is more like the loving parental relationship we would expect today.

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        In Act 3, Scene 5, when Lady Capulet enters, the audience perceives her more as a distant figurehead then as Juliet’s loving mother. So far in the play, that is the manner how Shakespeare has conveyed Lady Capulet but now things begin to change. There is contrast in Lady Capulet’s manner and this gives drama to the play. It seems that Tybalt’s death has brought mother and daughter closer; the caring language used by Lady Capulet towards Juliet conveys this:

(*)        Evermore weeping for your cousin’s death?

What, wilt thou wash him from his grave with tears?

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The writer chooses useful quotations from the play to illustrate the changing relationship between Juliet and her parents, but hangs quite unjustified conclusions on them, though he is quite right that this family spat, followed by the suggestions of her nurse, leaves Juliet feeling alone and vulnerable, thus setting her up for the eventual tragic ending. This conclusion is not included, however, in the summing-up in the final paragraph. Grammatical structures are mostly well-controlled, as is paragraph structure and layout. 3 stars