How far are Romeo and Juliet to blame for the tragedy of their deaths?

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Laura D’Anzieri

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15-05-04

How far are Romeo and Juliet to blame for the tragedy of their deaths?

 

I do feel that Romeo and Juliet are partly responsible for their own deaths but I definitely believe that others contribute to the their deaths. To find who is to blame for the tragedy you must consider how young Romeo and Juliet are, fate, love, the feud and other factors as well.

At the beginning of the play we are told about the feud that exists between the Capulets and the Montagues: ‘from ancient grudge, break to new mutiny’.  Romeo and Juliet must hide their love for each other from their families because their families would most probably disown them if they found out. I believe if Romeo and Juliet had not had to hide their love then there would not have been a tragedy. They would not have needed to take any of the desperate measures they adopt. The feud leads to events such as the death of Mercutio and Tybalt; these events lead to the terrible tragedy. As Mercutio dies he blames the feud for his death: ‘A plague O’ both your houses, I am sped’.

Old Capulet is largely to blame for all the rash measures taken by Romeo and Juliet because he gives Juliet the ultimatum of either marrying Paris or being disowned by her family: ‘And you be mine, I’ll give you to my friend, And you be not, hang, beg, starve, die in the streets’. Juliet cannot marry Paris because she loves Romeo and is already secretly married to him. The way in which Old Capulet speaks to Juliet would be shocking to an audience today but in the late 1500’s it would have been normal for a father to tell his daughter exactly what to do and threaten her if she did not cooperate: ‘…go with Paris to Saint Peter’s Church, Or I will drag thee on a hither-thither’. Without these ultimatums given to her I do not believe Juliet would have taken Friar Laurence’s potion that leads to even more catastrophe.

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Therefore someone I believe is greatly to blame for the tragedy is Friar Laurence. Friar Laurence comes up with the idea that Juliet should drink the poison that will make her appear dead for 42 hours: ‘and in this borrow’d likeness of shrunk death, Thou shalt continue two and forty hour, And then awake as from a pleasant sleep’. I think it is completely irresponsible of the Friar to let Juliet use such a concoction, as she is only fourteen and not even very mature for her age. Although it is not Friar Laurence’s fault that Romeo does not find ...

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