the places continued to be a little more private then the previous time. We
had many common interests and I found myself actually thinking that he might
be the one. When he asked if I would like to come over for dinner one night
there was no hesitation when I said yes. He was a great guy.
He cooked me a very nice dinner and we went into the living room and talked.
We started kissing and I thought that it would progress even further but he
was a complete gentleman and said no, he wanted to wait until it was the
perfect time. I left for home with a passionate kiss at the door and had to
be satisfied with that. We continued to see each other for a couple more
months with nothing more than kissing and a little fondeling. One night I
went out with a bunch of friends from work. After quite a few drinks at a
bar, the men in the group suggested that we all visit a "Men's Club". All
the other women agreed so I went along too. Shortly after we got there I
noticed one of the dancers looked very familiar, but I couldn't figure out
where I knew her from. A few moments later she noticed me, got a shocked
look on her face, mumbled my name and hurried to the dressing room. I didn't
see her the rest of the evening. When she said my name it sounded like
Jason!!!
The next evening I called Jason and told him I would be coming over for
dinner. When I got there he appeared to be very uncomfortable, but I figured
it was just my imagination. I told him what I had done the previous night
and asked if he had a sister that was in that line of work. He hesitated and
then finally admitted that it was him! He was really a girl named Stephanie.
I was in shock. He/she quickly started to explain that it originally started
out as a joke, but as time went on he had really fallen for me. Then he was
too scared to tell me for fear of loosing me. The words I love you came out
of his mouth. I didn't know what to say.I told him that I needed time to
think. I went home that night and didn't call him or email him for a couple
of weeks. Up until this point I was starting to think that I had fallen in
love. What was I going to do. During those couple of weeks he sent me
flowers, candy, cards, letters, gifts, anything he thought would win me
back. I decided tha!
t I couldn't be with him. He had lied to me and I would never be able to
trust him. I met him at a restaurant and told him how I felt. He seemed to
take it OK. But the next day I started getting calls where they hung up on
me, I received dead flowers, threatening letters, and there were several
times that I thought I saw someone outside my window watching me but when I
looked back there would be no one there. Then one day I found my cat
missing. He sometimes went out my window so I didn't think anything of it,
until I found it in a plastic bag, dead on my front porch the next day. I
went to the police. To this day I am still getting harrassed and the police
say they can't do anything about it since we have no proof that it is him.
Word of warning, no matter how tempting chat rooms are, or how nice you
think that person is, remember that you don't know that person and steer
clear of them. Hopefully my horror will end soon and one will never begin
for you.
