Many Men in Victorian Britain Feared Some Women's Desire for Independence. How does Browning Reflect this Fear in his Poem, 'Porphyria's Lover'?

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Many Men in Victorian Britain Feared Some Women’s Desire for Independence. How does Browning Reflect this Fear in his Poem, ‘Porphyria’s Lover’?

Amy Sanders

   Many men in Victorian Britain were concerned with some women’s desire for independence; they feared that they could loose their dominion and supremacy over them, which was a valued and respected custom. The men cherished their pre-eminence over their spouses; the thought of being deprived of it aggravated them and they believed that they needed to protect it in order to maintain their valued traditions.

   The Victorian’s once civilized and courteous lifestyle, where women obeyed every man’s wish, had been overwhelmed by the ever-growing popularity of scandalous stories displayed enticingly in the media. As a consequence of society taking a greater interest and curiosity in previously taboo topics such as sex, violence, promiscuity and madness - topics newspapers thrive off - the media had its biggest development during the Victorian period.  Access to read about these ‘dissolute’ and ‘immoral’ matters therefore increased, subsequently, more of society became influenced by the disobedient minority. Gradually, it became more normal to act violent or to sleep around – it was still seen as immoral but more people took to it

   While society’s loss of morals increased, the women’s ability to gain independence became easier. During the mid 1800’s women seized advantage of the public’s depletion of morals and began taking the liberty to go out socialising without their partners. Devoid of the vigilant eye of their spouse, the women could easily flirt with other men, and over time, this may have resulted in them having an affair. Robert Browning refers to women socialising without their partners in ‘Porphyria’s Lover’, line twenty-seven states “Nor could tonight’s gay feast restrain” to which Porphyria seems to have attended on her own because the poem suggests that Porphyria came from the feast and through a storm to join him, “When glided in Porphyria; straight she shut the old out and the storm”.

   As a rising number of stories regarding prostitutes, unwed mothers and adultery became topics of interest, society became increasingly worried that its purity was deteriorating. The behaviour of Porphyria in the poem echoes the perception of infidelity and adultery portrayed in the outrageous articles in the media. The poem proposes that Porphyria and the Lover may be of a different social class; it is suggested that Porphyria had arrived at the Lover’s cottage from a social gathering, “gay feast”. It was very common at the time for higher class individuals to attend these, in an endeavour to better their self-worth. Because of their differences of social status, their relationship between Porphyria and her Lover is socially forbidden, however she continues. Her disobedience stresses the reality that she is content to break the rules, again showing the careless side of society’s thoughts on moral behaviour; which evidently meant very little to Porphyria.

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    In addition, purity issues are underlined when she tempts the lover to gain his affection. Her actions could be portrayed as being quite sexual in the Victorian period, “she put my arm about her waist, and made her smooth white shoulder bare.” Her actions prove that she may not be quite as innocent as she is perceived. The proposal that she may possibly not be so chaste contrasts with the language that is used to describe her beauty and character, such as; “when glided in Porphyria”, “smooth white shoulder”, “perfectly pure”, which all are very praising references. ...

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