Marriage in Pride and Prejudice.

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Marriage in Pride and Prejudice

How does Jane Austen use marriage in Pride and Prejudice to present the nature

of an ideal relationship?

With a social and cultural context where marriage was assumed to be of great

importance, Jane Austen uses a number of marriages to expose and satirise

societal values of the age, and to explore the nature of the ideal marriage.

Austen portrays a true and ideal marriage to be one where economic and social

compatibility is encompassed with love and the union of minds. In the novel, all

marriages, except Elizabeth and Darcy?s, appear to be deficient in the values

necessary for an ideal marriage.

The marriage of the Bennets is an imprudent one, a union of a reasonably

intelligent man with an inane wife. The suggestion that the initial attraction

was purely physical elucidates that the relationship is based on superficial

grounds. Mr. Bennet?s lack of satisfaction in his marriage leads him to shut

himself from reality, failing to procure the masculine control that Austen

regards as central in a successful relationship. Austen thus portrays marriage

as a patriarchal institution, elucidating a perfect marriage to be one where the

male takes control and the female allows for the ?meeting of minds?.

Like the Bennets, the marriage between Lydia and Wickham is also flawed. Their

relationship is one where physical desire outweighs reason, decency and good

sense, with ?their passions stronger than their virtue.? Lydia?s infatuation

with the ?uniform? and desire for social standing, and Wickham?s desire for

financial inducements leads them to marry for entirely wrong reasons. By

stepping outside the social norms of her society, Lydia makes herself vulnerable

to ostracism, and by breaking the rules of society (that Austen herself

supports), their marriage is doomed to fail.

In the novel, Charlotte Lucas presents a pragmatic view on marriage, declaring

that ?happiness in marriage is entirely a matter of chance?. Her marriage to Mr.

Collins is to gain in establishment and acquire social standing and economic

stability. It is through Charlotte Lucas that Austen illustrates the dire

economic and social plight faced by unmarried women in the eighteenth century.

The superficial nature of Collins? love is made abundantly clear by Austen

through his earnest desire to appease his patroness, by the ease with which he

is able to transfer from one marriage object to another, and the absurdity of

his emotions. While the Collins? relationship has social standing and economic

security, it is entirely deficient in the affection and intellectual union that

Austen regards as quintessential in a true marriage.

The marriage of the Gardiners is superior to that of the Collins in terms of

affection, intelligence integrity as well as economic stability. However,

Austen?s realistic appraisal of eighteenth century society finds their

relationship inferior due to its lack of rank and status.

Similarly, Jane and Bingley [at the end of the novel] come to enjoy affection,

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position and economic security. However, their relationship is delineated to be

lacking in depth of feeling and intelligence, and is a union of less intelligent

minds, less self-awareness and Bingley?s weak irresolution.

By comparison with all other marriages in the novel, Elizabeth and Darcy?s is

the ideal by Austen?s standards - meeting the highest criteria of love,

character and fortune. Theirs is a relationship of mutual respect and love,

based on moral integrity and an understanding of each other as well as

themselves, while possessing economic wealth and status.

The marriages in Pride and Prejudice thus portray and advocate patriarchy ...

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