Another instance that supports this theme is when Nick relates to the loneliness that accompanies Gatsby's death:
" . . . it grew upon me that I was responsible, because no one else was interested-- interested, I mean, with that intense personal interest to which everyone has some vague right at the end . . . I wanted to get somebody for him. I wanted to go into the room where he lay and reassure him: 'I'll get somebody for you, Gatsby. Don't worry. Just trust me an I'll get somebody for you'" (p.165).
In some way, if he could get someone for Gastby, it would cure his own desperate need for a person to love in his life.
Daisy Buchanan, the object of Gatsby's desire, is Nick's cousin, and it is through him that she is reunited with Gatsby after so many years. Though she has money and a dashing, young husband, she too is struck with loneliness. When one looks past her beauty and the ringing of money in her voice, the loneliness can be seen. The fact that her husband does not love her any longer, and rather ironically shows his love by having a very public affair, adds to her solitude. The loneliness comes from the fact that she knows of the affair, and yet, she doesn't have the strength to step away from her money and do something about it. The money and sarcasm that she is able to run to are security blankets and cover-ups for the lonely feelings that overwhelm her.
Through a conversation Daisy has with Nick, Fitzgerald reveals the sadness and the cynical view this character has on life, due to her husband: "Her face was sad and lovely (p.9) . . . I saw that turbulent emotions possessed her . . . [She said,] 'Well, I've had a very bad time, Nick, and I'm pretty cynical about everything.' Evidently she had reason to be" (p.17). In this conversation, she recalls her daughter's birth. She remembers bursting into tears and making this comment:
"'All right . . . I'm glad it's a girl. And I hope she'll be a fool -- that's the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool'" (p.17). She obviously wants to spare her daughter the pain through which she has gone through because of the men that have been in her life, and the only way to achieve that is to be a "beautiful little fool."
Tom Buchanan, Daisy's Husband, is the male equivalent of his wife. Despite his domineering attitude and macho outward appearance, when it comes down to it, Tom is just as lonely as the rest. When his mistress, a lower class women known as Mildred Wilson, is killed, and when his wife is considering leaving him, his facade quickly crumbles away to reveal yet another person afraid of being alone.
In a heated discussion with Gatsby, words of defense and panic flow from his lips. He sees past his money and to a place where he stands alone:
" . . . he saw himself standing alone on the last barrier of civilization (p.130) . . . 'She does [love me] though. The trouble is that sometimes she gets foolish ideas in her head and doesn't know what she's doing . . . Once in a while I go off on a spree and make a fool of myself, but I always come back, and in my heart I love her all the time'" (p.132).
He knows the right words to say to keep her from leaving him. Protection from loneliness is what brings him back to Daisy; whereas it is the money that brings her back to him.
Though all of these characters portray some kind of solitude in their life, Gatsby is the epitome of loneliness nestled in a blanket of money. The events that transpire throughout his life until the day he is brutally killed support this theme completely. The Jay Gatsby that the reader is primarily faced with is a man with money and of mystery, who throws elegant and extreme parties for a living, (with a little bootlegging on the side).
"People were not invited-- they went there . . . Sometimes they came and went without having met Gatsby at all"(p.41). This is the first glimpse that can be seen of Gatsby's loneliness. Gatsby throws gigantic parties in which no one seems to care if he is there or not. They come and leave; they don't really care about him.
Nick meets Gatsby at the first party he attends. Throughout the evening, he observes the chaos and ever growing intoxication of the party. However, somewhere in the midst of the gayety, Nick notices Gatsby:
" . . . my eyes fell on Gatsby, standing alone on the marble steps and looking from one group to another . . . but no one swooned backward on Gatsby, and no French bob touched Gatsby's shoulder, and no singing quartets were formed with Gatsby's head for one link" (p.50).
Even in the midst of a thousand laughing, merry people, Gatsby is still separate from them; he is still alone.
In order to understand the intense and ever present loneliness that Gastby feels during his life and to understand why his death is so depressing, one must understand the relationship that he and Daisy had once shared. They had been intense lovers split by World War I. During this separation, Gatsby creates a "perfect Daisy" in his mind, and desperately tries to win her back from the man that she eventually marries. He spends his whole life being alone and making money, with the intent of being reunited with the woman he believes will always love only him. His dream finally comes true, and, at first, Daisy leads Gatsby to believe that she will leave Tom for him. Before she takes the initiative, Gatsby is killed.
The finality of Gatsby's loneliness is seen at the funeral, when the "love of his life" fails to even send flowers. While she is off wallowing in the comfort of her money, Gatsby is alone in the grave with only his father and Nick taking a moment to remember him. Of all the people in Gatsby's lifetime who took advantage of his house, cars, money, and parties, none of them cared enough to even pay their respects.
His life started out lonely; he "had never really accepted . . . his parents" (p.99), so he became a lonely wanderer. Even when he found his one true love, he is stripped away from her and dumped alone once more. Then, as he dedicates his life to be reunited with the illusion he creates, he comes to the realization that it is all a lie. He was born lonely, lived lonely, and died alone.
Loneliness, money, heartbreak and greed are bound together in the pages of The Great Gatsby through Fitzgerald's characters. Their thoughts and actions show that they all need someone to love them, however, money always seems to get in the way. Fitzgerald makes an amazing statement, not only on the time in which he lived, but also on mankind as a whole. He makes it apparent that money does not bring happiness, but rather leaves a gap of loneliness that can only be filled with sincere love.
