Romeo and Juliet, Who in your opinion was to blame for the lover's deaths

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Romeo and Juliet, Who in your opinion was to blame for the lover’s deaths.

“In one respect I’ll thy assistant be” (II, iii, 90). Friar Lawrence accepts the marriage between Romeo and Juliet an action, which later will cost their lives. Friar Lawrence was the cause of the lovers demise in my opinion. In modern times, you would have to be 16 to marry and have the parent’s permission. In the play, Romeo and Juliet married together without their parent’s permission, a law that Friar Lawrence broke. There was no law to what age you could be married, as there was a much lower life expectancy as there is now. Other people including Tybalt, the Nurse and the lovers themselves partly caused the deaths but Friar Lawrence married the two together and tried to get them together when Romeo was banished.  

Written in 1562, Romeus and Juliet by Arthur Brooke was the main inspiration for William Shakespeare’s Romeo and Juliet. Although both stories have a similar story, Brooke’s version was written mainly to show young people the physical attraction, while William Shakespeare’s aims to show the meaning of true love and the problems it causes. Brookes The Tragical History of Romeus and Juliet, to give the titles name in full, was written two years before the birth of Shakespeare. Around the same period as Brookes poem was written, In Verona there was a conflict between two wealthy families. Arthur Brooke would have based his poem on this so it is based on actual events. During the time the play Romeo and Juliet was based, in the sixteenth century, European comedy, in particular Italian comedy, was the flavour and Shakespeare added this to the play to ensure the play’s popularity. This was preformed mostly via the Nurse. Sixteenth century Italian comedies were high spirited and contained sexual and social plots. They often revolved around young men falling in love with a wealthy heiress. This is the case as in Romeo and Juliet. The Nurse featured in the play offers a chirpy character with the Italian comedy. This can be seen when the Nurse comments to Romeo at the Capulet party “he that can lay hold of her shall have the chinks” (I, v, 114-5). The Nurse here is telling Romeo that who ever weds Juliet will get her families wealth.

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Friar Lawrence is the main culprit in the lover’s deaths. The Friar tried to do a good deed to marry the couple without the parent’s permission to try and bring the families together, which it did at the cost of Romeo and Juliet’s life. The friar is Romeo’s confessor and spiritual adviser and helps him get through the troubles Romeo faces. We meet him first in Act 2 scene 3 outside his ‘cell’. This is where he accepts to marry Romeo and together, his first mistake. “In one respect I’ll thy assistant be” (II, iii, 90). The Friar ...

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