The Symptoms of Love

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The Symptoms of Love

I think that both Romeo and Adrian Mole are on the obsessive border and seem to even idolise the women that they love. They both compare the girl they think they love to other things. (for Adrian Mole it is Pandora and for Romeo it is Rosaline and Juliet.) They use metaphors about the people themselves, like Adrian Mole says ‘Her hair is the colour of treacle’. Romeo describes his love as a one way thing, unacquainted love. He loves Rosaline but she is too pretty and amazing to ever like somebody like him. Romeo’s love is just what he can see (lust) and not what is on the inside.

As soon as Romeo sees Juliet he immediately casts Rosaline out of his mind, which means that he can’t have really loved her,  or else she wouldn’t have been forgotten so easily. I believe though that the love that Romeo shows to Juliet is real and deep. The speech changes when Romeo is talking about Juliet than Rosaline. When he talks about Rosaline the speech is all about describing how beautiful she is, and not about really what he feels about her apart from how annoyed he is that she does not want to love or be loved. With Juliet however Romeo speaks of what he feels about her, as well as describing her beauty. Romeo does in both of the speeches believe that the two girls do not like him at all, this is another repetition of courtly love.

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Adrian Mole describes his love in a very school boyish style. He doesn’t love her as soon as he sees her like Romeo did, but instead he begins to love her over a reasonably long period of time. He does these small things that he thinks will get her attention, so that she will notice him and love him back. When Pandora ‘goes out with Nigel’, Adrian feels sick and depressed. This could be a sign that his love is genuine for Pandora but I don’t think that it is it is just a passing thing.

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