To what extent are Romeo and Juliet to blame for their deaths?

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By Sammi Leach

To what extent are Romeo and Juliet to blame for their deaths?

        In this essay I am going to discuss to what extent Romeo and Juliet are to blame for their deaths.

        William Shakespeare wrote the story of Romeo and Juliet around 1594/5.  

The basic outline of the story is that Juliet, who is a Capulet, falls in love with Romeo, a Montague. The Capulet’s and the Montague’s are two families that have been in dispute for years. Romeo and Juliet go through an unlucky train of events, which eventually lead to their deaths. My argument is that Romeo and Juliet are not completely to blame for their deaths. The Nurse helped them along in their affair and also Tybalt killing Mercutio played a rather large part. Also it is Capulet’s fault as he tried to force Juliet into marrying Paris. Friar Lawrence also played a huge part.

        The deaths of Romeo and Juliet are needless. They had no reason to die, but if they didn't die then the greatest love tragedy would not have been. It was mainly the people around them who were fighting and disagreeing about their relationship. Romeo and Juliet mainly kept out of the fighting but their lives were made miserable and unhappy by the people around them who were interfering. Because they were so deeply in love with each other, they refused to be split up and therefore took risks to stay together, which eventually led to their deaths. The Prologue at the beginning of the play suggests it was mainly fate that was to blame, “star-crossed lovers and “death-marked love” are examples of this.

Romeo is a young man, a Montague, who unfortunately falls in love with Juliet, a Capulet whose family are bitter enemies of the Montague's. Romeo blames fate or misfortune for nearly everything that goes wrong; after he kills Tybalt, he then realises the seriousness of his action but prefers to blame the stars rather than himself.

“O, I am fortune’s fool”. He then blames the stars again when he hears that Juliet is dead, “Then I defy you stars”. This shows that he didn’t think too much about his actions, and did not like to take blame for things that went wrong. It seems that he would jump into things without thinking of the consequences. In the balcony scene he risks getting caught by the Nurse, and then later in Juliet’s bedroom when Lady Capulet is looking for her.

        I think killing Tybalt was the biggest mistake Romeo made as it led to his banishment and it meant he could no longer see Juliet, without the risk of being caught. I do not think though that you can blame Romeo for killing Tybalt. As Tybalt was asking for a fight, “Well peace be with you, sir; here comes my man.” He would have rather fought with Romeo than Mercutio. When Romeo refused, Romeo’s closest friend Mercutio stepped in and drew his sword. They fought and Romeo intervenes trying to stop them but this according to the dying Mercutio gave Tybalt the opportunity to kill him, “I was hurt under your arm”. Romeo then fought and killed Tybalt. This was probably done out of anger. Which is understandable because Tybalt had just killed his best friend. But then again, Romeo could have walked away but as usual he acted without thinking.

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        Juliet is a young Capulet not quite 14 years old, she is gentle and loyal, obeys her parents and thinks for herself. When she first meets Romeo she falls for him instantly. She is practical in that she quickly asks Romeo to marry her which would be against her parents’ will as they want her to marry Paris whom she does not love. She is also like Romeo in that she does not think of the consequence of her actions. She is loyal to Romeo, as she is worried about him getting caught in the balcony scene,

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