We can sympathise with Elizabeth’s embarrassment caused by the way her family behaves. When Mrs Bennet tells Mr Darcy that she ‘cannot see that London has any great advantage over the country’ and Elizabeth is shown to be ‘blushing for her mother’, her mother’s outburst and continued argumentative streak cause Elizabeth’s embarrassment. While Mr Darcy simply made a comment about the difference in the variety of people in towns and in the country, her mother’s offensive and excessive reply led to Elizabeth’s attempt at changing the topic to avoid further discomfort. The modern day reader may equate this scenario to any situation where respect and decorum is required but an associate behaves inappropriately. Although Mrs Bennet’s opinion may not seem inappropriate in today’s society, in the time of Pride and Prejudice it would have had the same effect as perhaps inappropriate use of bad language would have today.
Another aspect of Elizabeth’s character that the modern reader can admire is her ability to admit her mistakes. Admitting that you are wrong is something that people generally find challenging, and so the fact that Elizabeth can do it so easily is something to be admired. We see her realise how prejudiced she has been against Darcy when she says ‘She grew absolutely ashamed of herself… feeling that she had been blind, partial, prejudiced, absurd.’ Austen uses the idea of Elizabeth, and other characters throughout the novel, being proud and prejudiced as a basis of the novel. When Elizabeth realises and regrets making these assumptions, Austen is again contrasting her to other characters in similar situations to her. The fact that Elizabeth is the first one to realise that Mr Darcy is not the man that everyone presumes him to be shows that she is not like the others and has better judgement than the other women in the novel.
We can sympathise with Elizabeth and the rest of the Bennet family as they are in a very precarious financial situation. Their estate is entailed and so the Bennet daughter’s need to get married to suitable heirs to ensure their father’s estate is rightfully inherited. This pressure to marry off the sisters is apparent throughout the novel, especially from her mother, for example when her father says ‘Your mother will never speak to you again if you do not marry Mr Collins.’ Her mother is also said to have ‘coaxed and threatened her by turns’. Although the pressures to get married are generally not as great today as they were in the time of Pride and Prejudice, the modern reader can associate with the general pressures of family and society, especially in non-westernised cultures. We can therefore empathise with Elizabeth’s thoughts and emotions.
Austen also uses her narrative craft in order to make the reader sympathise with the character of Elizabeth. She uses free indirect thought in cases such as ‘she was ashamed to think how much.’ (When referring to her being prejudiced towards Mr Darcy) ‘And thought him handsomer than ever’ (While thinking of Mr Wickham) and ‘Elizabeth thought with pleasure of dancing a great deal.’ (Whilst thinking ahead about Mr Wickham at the Netherfield Ball.) The fact that Austen frequently tells the reader this using indirect thought ensures that the reader not only understands what Elizabeth is saying, but also what she thinks and feels about people and situations. This gives the reader more of an insight into Elizabeth’s character and the way that she reacts to certain circumstances. Therefore the reader can sympathise more with Elizabeth’s disposition.
We can once again sympathise with Elizabeth and the Bennet family when the character Lydia elopes with Mr Wickham. We learn that his intentions may not be entirely honourable and there is a belief that he may not intend to marry Lydia at all. Elizabeth is distraught as she feels that if she had spoken out about Wickham’s character she may have been able to prevent the humiliation and misery that she felt Lydia was bringing upon them all. Elizabeth also urges Darcy to ‘conceal the unhappy truth as long as it is possible.’ This situation has also upset Mr Bennet in such a way that he blames himself for the present unhappy state of the family. This also has an impact on the other Bennet sisters, for example when he tells Kitty that ‘no officer is to ever enter my house again.’ In today’s society it is common place for couples to live together without being married, but there are still many cases where for perhaps religious or cultural reasons families may not accept the choice of partner made by their children. This situation still causes conflict in many families of today.
Throughout the novel, Austen provides the reader with plenty of opportunity to sympathise with Elizabeth Bennet. Austen shows Elizabeth as a respectable, intelligent woman who would be an excellent role model for women in today’s still predominantly male-dominated society. Despite to the fact that she didn’t have a governess, her natural intelligence is very high and this shows that even without wealth one can be well educated and go on to great things. She is inspirational for the modern reader because her character shows that class does not have to limit your aspirations in life. Elizabeth’s characteristics make her a very good head-strong and admirable woman for the modern reader.
