Problems of passion can be influenced by relationship conflicts such as depression, stress and the past sexual trauma, to certain medications and medical disorders. Sexual problems come from relationship difficulties such as those.
Women and men tend to have different phenylethylamine (PEA) levels; a naturally occurring neurotransmitter. For example, when we come into contact with a person who we are highly attracted to; our brains automatically become saturated with a sort of “love” comprised of PEA and other chemicals like dopamine. These chemicals explain why new lovers can talk forever, make love forever, lose weight without trying to and feel very optimistic.
With new lovers, sex is the peak experience of the relationship. Everything is great and both partners want lots of sex, get their fix, and then want more. They believe it must be love. Within 18 to 36 months this romantic rapture will begin to burn out.
To be able to fully understand a couple’s sexual struggle, another chemical comes into affect called testosterone. Both sexes produce testosterone; men produce in their testes where women pump out smaller amounts from their ovaries. It is proven that testosterone highly correlates with the male libido. Resent studies have shown that testosterone correlates with females as well although, on average men tend to be hornier than women. Men think about sex more often, masturbate more often and rank sex as more imporant in their lives than women do.
The article concludes, that in order for a relationship to work, both partners have to work together to please one another. They have to communicate understand their partner completely and cannot be selfish and needy.
So overall are we able to satisfy our partners for a life time and be able to commit to a serious relationship? Are there too many things getting in the way? How do we know whether or not things will remain the same forever? The answers to those questions are left for people to decide and to try and make the right choices. No one can do it for them.
I believe that in a relationship there will always be battles to face and overcome. Without them, what would a relationship be? You have to work with one another on a consistent basis and grow stronger together by getting through the hard phases that come with being in a relationship. No one is able to make decisions for you, and sometimes things are just not meant to be, but that doesn’t mean you have to give up complete hope. There are people who dedicate their lives to helping people no matter what the situation could be. Always believe in yourself and put forth everything you can to help build a strong relationship and work your way up the latter of love. It will not be easy, but if you really love someone, eventually things will surpass and be better than ever imaginable.
