"Young men's love then lies not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes". To what extent is this true of Romeo's feelings towards Juliet: does he really love her.

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“Young men’s love then lies not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes”. To what extent is this true of Romeo’s feelings towards Juliet: does he really love her.

        Romeo and Juliet is a play that was written at the end of the 1500s by William Shakespeare. It is a tragedy revolving around the relationship between the two main characters, Romeo and Juliet. There is also the underlying subplot of the feuding Capulet and Montague families and how this affects the relationship of the two young lovers.

The play starts with the chorus giving some background information and an advertisement of what is to come, which is in the form of a sonnet. This helps give the reader a picture of what the two families relationship is and how this stems from an “ancient grudge” which will come to affect the star-cross’d lovers. It also makes clear to the audience that the play is a tragedy when they talk about their “death-mark’d love”, showing that in the it will end in their death.

        The opening scene of the play starts with Romeo being sad and depressed, with Benvolio trying to find out what the matter is, as Romeo is being “so secret and so close” with his feelings. Benvolio eventually finds out that Romeo is depressed as he is “out of her favour where I am in love”. This shows that at the moment he believes that he is in love with Rosaline, despite him only knowing her for a short time and the feelings not being reciprocated as she has taken an oath of chastity and will not be persuaded to change her mind by Romeo. Eventually Benvolio manages to convince Romeo that he should come to the party with him, despite Romeo assuring him that “thou canst not teach me to forget”, making the audience think he may well be in love.

        Before going to the party, Benvolio assures Romeo that he will help him get over Rosaline and move on to someone else. Benvolio say how if Romeo will “compare her face with some that I shall show, and I will make thee think thy swan a crow”. This metaphor shows how he believes that looks count more than anything in love, and that he believes as soon as he shows Romeo, a girl who is more attractive than Rosaline, he will be able to move on. Romeo also seems to believe that looks are the most important thing, although he still believes that he is in love and will not be able to get over Rosaline as “the all-seeing sun ne’er saw her match since the world begun”.

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The previous scenes make the audience start to believe that Romeo may well be in love, despite it being based on looks. However, when he gets to the party he soon forgets about Rosaline, when he sees Juliet. When describing her he uses metaphors and imagery like describing her as a “snowy dove trooping with the crows”, proving Benvolio was right. Romeo also goes on to question, “did my heart love till now?” as he has never felt this way before, despite never having actually met Juliet, and despite saying that Rosaline was the most beautiful person in the world, ...

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