A 12-year-old reports being bullied at the bus stop. The bullying has escalated to pushing and shoving. What impact can this experience have on the child, and what should the parents do about it?
A 12-year-old reports being bullied at the bus stop. The bullying has escalated since the new school year started and now includes pushing and shoving. The child being bullied is small in stature compared to the other 6th graders. What impact can this experience have on the child (boy or girl), and what should the parents do about it?
Every day in our schools, children are threatened, teased, taunted, and tormented by bullies. At any given time, about 25 percent of U.S. students are the victims of bullies and about 20 percent are engaged in bullying behavior (Education World, 2000). The National Association of School Psychologists estimates that 160,000 children stay home from school every day because they are afraid of being bullied (Education World, 2000).
The 12-year old in this case has definitely been a victim of bullying. Bullying can be direct or indirect. Direct bullying is the kind of action that the word “bullying” usually brings to mind, and is usually physical or verbal in nature (NCPTB, 2003). Physical bullying includes punching, kicking, biting, or strangling. The 12-year-old is a victim of direct, physical bullying. Although it is not mentioned in this case, the 6th grader probably is also receiving verbal bullying, which includes name-calling, threatening, taunting, and gossip (NCPTB, 2003). Although this case does not involve indirect bullying, it is important to note what it is. Indirect bullying is more subtle and more difficult to detect. Types of indirect bullying include social isolation, intentional exclusion, making faces, obscene gestures, and manipulating friendships (NCPTB, 2003).