Roethke introduces us to a ‘small boy’. This deliberately implies that the child is not only physically small but also young and vulnerable. Roethke’s choice of words also gives the reader a clear impression of the size of the boy in proportion to the size of his ‘papa.’ This proportion gives the reader a real feeling for the way the child has been swept up both physically and emotionally by the situation. The boy hangs on like ‘death’ to his father and finds the waltzing difficult, but he loves the dancing like nothing else. The child clings to his papa’s shirt and the father holds onto his child’s wrists. This indicates the size of the child and therefore the way that he is physically carried away by the situation.
When the father and son ‘romp until the pans slid from the kitchen shelf’ Roethke is telling us that a frantic dance is taking place. This dance, although it is lacking in style, is very joyous and full of love. It is a time when a father and son are bonding. Roethke’s choice of words makes the reader feel as carried away by the dance as the father and son.
Although sometimes the child comes off worse for wear in the dance, Roethke also clearly sates that there is no malice in the energetic dance by his order of words. The child’s ‘right ear scraped a buckle’ at every missed step, this means that any possible injury to the child is an accident, a product of frenetic dancing. There is whisky on the father’s breath, but Roethke states this to point out that the father is boisterous and lively at the end of a night. It is a statement of the passion that exists in this dance, and the passion that the reader becomes carried away with.
Finally, Roethke points out how the child loves this part of the evening. The child is ‘still clinging’ to his father’s shirt as he goes off to bed. The reader really feels the love and warmth that the child feels for his father and their evening ritual at this point. One can sense the disappointment that the child would feel when it is over, but above all the satisfaction and contentment that the child would feel because the waltzing has taken place.
Roethke’s explorations of the emotions of a child are highly successful. The way that the reader becomes carried away, as if he was a child, is an indication of how well Roethke has written ‘My Papa’s Waltz.’ Roethke forces the reader to feel the emotions of the child, the love for his parents, and above all the love of the nightly ritual of crudely waltzing with his father.