Anyway, when girls wait for a guy to call, that doesn't necessarily mean that she's so into him. I mean, when I wait for a call from some guy I met, that's not because I see a future in him or something. But it's because he interests me and I'd like to know him better. Though not all guys know that. I've noticed that there's a lot of guys who's also confused if he should call this girl or not. Because calling her might appear to her as if he's on the road of courtship when he doesn't really intend to. But on the other hand, if he's thinking that, then we go back to the big question, why did he still bother to ask for the girl's number?!
I mean, there are some things in life which can be so simple and yet until now, we're all making it complicated. For several decades, it's been a custom that it's always the guy's who make the first move especially on a telephone conversation. Even when his intentions are just friendly ones. But then that's always been a problem. Because some guys find it hard to make the first move even when the feeling is mutual. But I'm just talking about this simple gesture of calling a girl one day or one week after he asked for her number. And yet not all guys can do that?
So I came up with some possible reasons why he had failed to call as promised :
- BUSY.. (that's acceptable if he's working, in school, helping people or an athelete who needs to practice. But not acceptable if it's vacation time and you're sure that he's just at home watching tv or something.)
- OUT OF TOWN.. (long-distance charges are expensive you know)
- GOT SICK/ACCIDENT..(let's just hope not. Though it'd be easier to forgive him if something like that had happened to him.)
- LOST YOUR NUMBER..(hmm.. bad. Unless he has a valid reason for losing it.)
- CHANGED HIS MIND…(that kinda hurts, I mean, imagine the time you wasted waiting for his call!!!.)
- CONFUSED OR CHICKENED OUT…(duh!)
Anyway, those or just a few possible reasons why some guys just don't give you a ring when you're expecting him to. But there are also some impossible reasons which may happen in a range of one in a million. Though I prefer not to waste my time in mentioning them.
So I'm now finished with this article and he still haven't called me. As I've said, it's kinda unfair being treated this way. Because we girls are always left wondering sometimes. Though I guess that's one of the thrills of being a girl, don't you think so?!
