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         Do we act morally to benefit others or do we act morally to help ourselves?

         Do we act morally to benefit others or do we act morally to help ourselves? Does an individual act only according to their own interests? Can an individual ever truly act for others in complete disregard for their own interests? Is it true individuals seeking their self-interests would gladly forgo their efforts to help another if they could be satisfied in some alternate way? I believe that our actions are often promoted by our self-interests. In this essay I will argue that people are really acting in regards to their self-interest, even when they appear to not be acting selfishly.

If we reflect on our own lives and the lives of our friends, we can conclude the many acts of self-interests.  My first example is based upon a true incident that I observed. A friend of mine was planning to visit during the holidays and stay at a hotel near my hometown.  She spoke to a male companion who promised her housing while she was in town. When he spoke to her he always claimed that he was a really nice guy and that he was only interested in her comfort and happiness while she visited.  She took into consideration the idea that he was just a good friend who wanted to ensure her a delightful stay while she was in town.  She decided to take his offer and reside with him while on her vacation.  Consequently she unmasked his hidden motives.  

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During her stay she recognized that this male companion was only interested in his desire to gain physical pleasure from her not to merely act as a friend and respect her in his household. She quickly recognized that him taking her to lavish dinners, and offering companionship to local places was all in his concealed purpose to seduce her. The male companion was acting as though he was only concerned with her happiness during her vacation. He behaved as though he was doing her a favor and it not out of any desire of his own.

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