Looking at James McBride and his mother, Ruth McBride.

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The story is told from the perspective of her son, James McBride. The mother, Ruth McBride, is an extremely confident and strong character as we can see from the quote of “ leave me alone”,” Don’t bother me” and I “ I don’t want no parts of them” which further illustrate that she can be independent as she does not want to be part of the family, whereby a family should be a place to welcome you ,give you warmth, care about you and try their best to help you no matter what happens or how difficult to settle the problems.

Ruth was born in Poland 1921 and was brought up by an Orthodox Jewish tradition and She tried to change her name as well as her religion from the quote of “Jewish name”, “got rid of that name” and “ I never used it again” which further shows that she detestation being a Jewish and worst still having a Jewish name. Furthermore, from the quote of “I left Virginia for good” which illustrate her childhood with her family is not happy at all, it seems like a torture, a torture for her and felt relieved with the breakaway from that place, to pull herself away from there. Nevertheless, the quotes “ too many rules to follow” , “ too many forbidden” , “you cant’s” , “ you mustn’t” expand the part of the reason for Ruth not being a Jews anymore, it just seems that they were limited to certain areas of actions, ways of thinking as well as the speech which will be tedious for those people like Ruth. Not just that even just having a meal, from this quote” you had to use different table settings for every meal, different tablecloths, different dishes,forks,spoons,knives,everything” illustrate that even just a simple task in daily life, they had made it so complicated. Moreover, they were superstitious as I can refer this from the quote of “didn’t talk about death” and “spit on the floor when they said the word ‘death’” perchance that they think that after saying such word will bring bad luck to their family. So, from what I had seen so far I can say that being a Jewish is tough and it is like to discipline yourself.

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Next, as Ruth is the daughter of a strict and miserable rabbi, I could refer this idea from the quote of “Orthodox rabbi”, “he was a fox”, and “he was hard as a rock”. From a Jewish turning into a Christian, Ruth marries a black man, African-American, which is taboo, manages to raise 12 children and put them all through college. As it is a taboo, there will be gossips about the relationship in between them as well as prejudice against them whereby blacks and whites will never get along well together. She moved to New York to marry that black ...

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