The family is often described as 'A Haven in a Heartless World'. Discuss this statement with reference to Domestic Violence.

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The family is often described as ‘A Haven in a Heartless World’.

 Discuss this statement with reference to Domestic Violence.

The notion of the family as being a place of sanctuary, a private idyll, where the individual is protected from the pressures of the public aspects of life has been much criticised. Various writers have sought to bring to attention the violent abuse that occurs within families. It is accepted that the majority of incidences of domestic violence are those that involve women being abused by men and this discussion will focus on that particular scenario. However, it is important to recognise that other forms of domestic violence occur. Men, children and the elderly are also abused and the notion of domestic violence is not peculiar to heterosexual relationships.

The idea that the family, rather than acting as an institution which functions to protect its members, is, in fact, a powerful tool of ideological patriarchy has been much emphasised by feminist writings. “The value system of male supremacist society holds the family to be inviolable…” (Ward, 1997 in O’Toole and Schiffman, 1997. Page 479). Millett (1970), further describes the family as being a patriarchal component contained within a patriarchal whole (society). This analysis by Millett (1970) is important as she refers to the family as being an important link between the individual and the external social structure. Thus, the family is central to the social control to which women are subjected to in both realms of their lives. As notions of control feature heavily in feminist debates surrounding the issue of domestic violence, it may be argued that this issue raises the concept of the split between the public and the private spheres of social life. An article by Larkin and Popaleni (1994) develops this theme further. They claim that, “…inquiry into the arena of the ‘private’, therefore makes it possible to understand broader political relations inculding males’ harassment of females in the ‘public’ sphere.” (Larkin and Popaleni, 1994. Page 215).

However, it is also important to note that, while it has been claimed to provide a useful insight into the link between the two spheres of social life. This perceived division between the public and the private domain has also been cited as being a reason as to why the issue of domestic violence has been previously ignored by both legislators and law enforcing institutions.

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During previous centuries, there have been attempts to bring the issue of domestic violence into the public arena in a bid to reduce the oppression of many women. As far back as 1792, Mary Wollstonecraft spoke of the tyranny within the family home and, in 1853, an Act intended to permit magistrates to punish males who were using violence against women and children was passed (Evason, 1982). However, this Act was rarely invoked and was criticised for attempting to halt the use of violence whilst failing to challenge the authority of husbands. The lack of alteration to women’s subordinate ...

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