My hypothesis is that "The modern family is not symmetrical due to inequality in the household".

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“The Modern Family Is Not Symmetrical”

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My hypothesis is that “The modern family is not symmetrical due to inequality in the household”.  The idea of the symmetrical family is taken from Willmott and Young following their research into family life in London.  They found that husbands play a bigger part in family life, conjugal bonds are strong and the family is home centred.  But the society we live in is based on the ideology that woman should be homemaker; that husbands ‘help’ their wives with domestic chores demonstrates that these jobs are seen as women’s work.  Subjected to patriarchy, women are forced to live the ideology.

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        Delphy’s most innovative contribution is her application of Marxist concepts to the analysis of patriarchy.  Although committed to Marxists analytical methods, she was highly critical of those who regarded women’s subordination as a secondary issue and who claimed that women, unlike the proletariat, were not subjected to exploitation. Delphy claims “the marriage contract is really a labour contract where women swear to love, honour and obey, provide free domestic labour and free sex.  Throughout      the marriage the husband steals the wife’s labour.  Even if the wife takes paid labour outside the home, she usually continues to perform domestic labour free of charge and her wages are spent on services such as childcare and laundry.  In this case Delphy argues that the woman is in effect paid nothing.

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        Delphy pointed out that housework is carried out under very different social relations to those within the capitalist mode of production.  The worker under capitalism exchanges a fixed amount of labour for a wage, but within the domestic mode of production there is no such exchange.  The services a wife provides for her husband are not fixed or finite.  A wife does not receive wages for her labour and she cannot change her husband in the way that workers can change their employers.  These specific economic relations are the basis of what Delphy calls the ‘domestic mode of production’ ...

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