In the article “America’s Birth At Appomattox”, Wortham discusses how the reconciliation between the Union and Confederate officers and soldiers was played out around the 1860’s in Appomattox. According to Wortham this occurred after Lee surrendered and when the Confederates stacked their arms, folded their flags and were paroled. Wortham discusses how the United States was born in the Appomattox Courthouse in Virginia. “Lee signed not so much terms of surrender as he did the birth certificate of a nation- the United States- and the country was born in that moment.” (Robertson)

Abraham Lincoln believed that reconciliation was an explicit policy goal. The problem that Lincoln had was that he didn’t know how to end the war and win the peace at the same time. Lincoln argued that the Union’s aim should be only to conquer the Confederates but to get rid of those forces that put the peace at risk. If the North won the war and lost the peace Lincoln said there would be no way for the entire country to ever find the reunion and freedom that would pay off for all those years of war.

 Lincoln understood that what he wanted wouldn’t become true without surrendering. “He expected Grant, “the remorseless killer,” and Sherman, “destruction’s own self,” to “fight without mercy as long there must be fighting, but when the fighting stopped they [must] try to turn old enemies into friends.” (Wortham, 156)  It is said that Lincoln knew his citizens, and that he was confident that while they were politically disunited, the raw material of reconciliation resided in their hearts. (Wortham, 156)

On Palm Sunday, April 9, 1865 white flags of truce were held up and there was a cease fire that remained until the surrender meeting with Grant and Lee was held. Union and Confederate generals awaited on the steps of the Appomattox House for Grant and Lee. There were many introductions and shaking of ands as well as drinking among the awaiting officers. The question to be asked here is “How could one so easily drink of the cup of fraternity with someone who has been shooting at him and his comrades- and sometimes hitting the mark- for four years?” (Wortham, 156)

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On this Palm Sunday, for these men there was no revenge, they just wanted and waited for everything to be over. John Gibbon a North Carolinian “proposed that if Grant and Lee couldn’t come to terms and stop the fighting, they should order their soldiers to fire only blank cartridges to prevent further bloodshed.” (Wortham, 156) At noon Grant and Lee still didn’t show up so everyone went back to their respective lines hoping what Gibbon said was true.

Grant arrived at the house around 1:30 and 2:00 where Lee was already awaiting. By 3:00 the surrender documents were signed ...

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