The two main types of love are that of conditional and unconditional love. Here the reasons behind loving a person could be defined by these two types. Conditional love, is loving a person according to certain conditions and terms. For example, you might love a person because he is helpful to you and he aids you at times of need. But if that person turns upside down by becoming mean and spiteful, then you would surely lose that love towards him in time. This proves that you only loved him because of the conditions he provided for you. On the other hand, unconditional love is loving a person unconditionally without having certain terms or circumstances to maintain it. This type of love contains the purest of emotions and feelings. An example over this could be the love towards children. It doesn’t matter what a child does wrong, his/her parents will always love him/her not matter the situation he/she is in.
Some people tend to plan for love. Watching every step as they go through, making sure everything is perfect and working very hard into finding out if things will go out well or not. But in my opinion that is a rarely successful process and also could be considered wrong. I believe that love should find a person, not the person find love. And when it is found, a person should not disbelieve in it, thinking that it could mislead his life, or that it is not the right thing to do. Otherwise, this could lead to the loss of a special someone in your life who might have cared about you to a degree were no one else would ever be capable of.
In addition, some people may think of love as a smooth relationship. No problems or issues involved. But that is also not true. Nothing in life is perfect, even the most useful things can always be improved, except for love. When two people are in love, they tend to have some conflicts and arguments and sometimes not talk to each other for sometime. That is nothing but the process for perfecting love. By having these conflicts and arguments the couple begins to understand each other more profoundly, making them less prone to fall in the same mistake again in the future. Then at a certain point this comes to a degree were they begin to understand each other fully and there love life becomes perfect providing none of them ignores there relationship and there duties towards it. Off course the time taken for love to reach perfection differs among people. Sometimes it could take a life time, and sometimes just a few days. But at the end, love always prevails with the aid of the strong will provided by the lovers.
In conclusion, I think love is a feeling no one should ignore. Because when its pureness and softness touches your heart it leaves a mark were nothing else could take its place, even after death is taken upon us. So don’t fight love, but instead fight for love.
