Counselling Theory - Good Practise and Ethics

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Define what is meant by the term Counselling

Counselling is a process in which a person is given the opportunity to talk openly and freely, exploring issues, thoughts and feelings that are currently affecting their life in an understanding environment free from judgement.  It is a private, personal and confidential process and can only take place between a person who feels as though they are in need of help and a qualified practising counsellor.  A person can only ‘choose’ to enter in to a counselling relationship, it cannot be forced upon anybody; “It is always at the request of the client as no one can properly be 'sent' for counselling” (BACP, education, what is counselling?)

“Counselling takes place only when both sides agree it is taking place and the counsellor has no other role in the client’s life.  If the helper does just the same things but as part of another role they are not Counselling but using Counselling Skills.” (Frankland and Sanders, 1994, p.34)

A qualified practising counsellor is somebody who has gained the relevant academic qualification and experience to enable them to practice.  They adhere to Counselling boundaries within a contract with the client.  They have Counselling aims and goals and work within an ethical framework which displays Counselling ethics to ensure good practice.  

A client seeking help through Counselling will be incongruent and experiencing difficulties in some or many areas of day to day living.  They may be experiencing confusion, distress or dissatisfaction with life.  Through listening closely to the issues presented a counsellor will try and see things from the client’s perspective and through the therapeutic relationship will endeavour to encourage change, choice, clarity and empowerment.  Counselling is not giving advice or being directive in approach but encouraging a client to see past their difficulty and find their own right answers to life’s questions.

Explain their own philosophical approach to Counselling

I view the human condition as being essentially good. I believe that inside us all at the very essence of our being lies who we really are, our own personal rightness, the answers to all of life’s questions and the ability to overcome great distress.  To move on, learn and constantly grow.  I also believe that what we all really need to feel happy and fulfilled is to be loved and accepted for being that person. When that love and acceptance is not given in our interactions with others we learn other ways of being that are not congruent with our own personal beliefs and feelings and act out different personas in order to gain acceptance and love from others.  I do not believe that this can ever bring true fulfilment but manifests many negative, confusing emotions and makes life seem like a constant struggle.  

As a counsellor I would hope to help people to realise their own potential, empower people to change, see past their surface issues, look to themselves for their own right answers, and understand that they have choice.  I want to help people to reach a place where they are able to heal their grief, sadness, distress and despair, a place where they are able to live their lives in a fulfilling way for themselves.  ,  

I trust in Counselling as a process which helps people to begin to do these things.  To me Counselling is about giving somebody the appropriate space to talk through whatever they choose in an environment of understanding, acceptance, respect and trust.  It is about gradually building a therapeutic relationship in which the counsellor is able to respond to the client honestly and empathically, giving their own insight and observation and challenging the client when they feel the time is right.  I believe this relationship is powerful and assists in enabling the client to become more knowledgeable about them self; strengthening self and empowering positive change.  It can take time for people to come to their own answers and I do not believe that it is something that can be forced, however if provided with the right conditions I believe that in their own time people will begin to change.

I see the Counsellor’s state of being as essential to this process; I believe that being in a Counselling relationship with a counsellor who is in touch with their own true being can have an exceptional healing effect on a client.  

Explain the impact that this approach has on their practice as a Counsellor

To be able to work effectively in this way it will be necessary that I have a heightened knowledge of myself and my own internal processes and accept that I am also constantly learning and growing as an individual and as a counsellor.   I will need to be able to listen beyond the words that are being spoken by the client and have an ability to examine and monitor myself and my own reactions and be genuine in communicating those reactions to my client during counselling sessions.  

I will need to have complete understanding and respect for whatever place my client is in and trust that everybody has their own right timing.  Change in a person cannot be forced and I will need to be patient with the process with each client that I see, but also know when it is right to challenge incongruence.  

As I believe that people can only arrive at their own answers and begin to make changes in their own right time I do not deem it appropriate for limits to be applied regarding how many sessions should take place between Counsellor and client.  This could cause a potential conflict with certain services and agencies that will only allow a specific number of sessions to take place.  

2.1 Evaluate the need for an ethical framework for counselling & psychotherapy

It is responsible for a practicing counsellor to become a member of a professional body such as the British Association for Counsellors and Psychotherapists (BACP) which provides an Ethical Framework for its members to adhere and refer to.  Such a framework exists to assist counsellors and psychotherapists in their work with clients and acts as a support when difficult and varying issues occur within their practice.  As autonomy is an essential aspect of what it is to be a counsellor it would not be appropriate that there were a rigid set of rules to abide by, however a framework offers a structure and support for members to move inside and still maintain autonomy.  An ethical framework accounts for the individuality of practitioners; it gives sound, clear guidance on what to do should an ethical dilemma occur however leaves room for adjustment as required by circumstances. The BACP framework is made up of a structure of guidelines all aiming to ensure a standard of practice which is safe for clients and practitioners, promoting a commitment towards working ethically and with accountability.  The framework also ensures that members of the BACP have a commitment to continual professional development, staying up to date with new developments in counselling and constantly learning and growing as a practitioner.  

Without any such structure at all counselling as a profession would not be deemed reputable; there would be no accountability and people may have little trust in the profession.  

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2.2 Explain the main elements of one recognised ethical framework for counselling and psychotherapy

The three main elements of the BACP Ethical Framework are; Values of Counselling and Psychotherapy, Ethical Principles of Counselling and Psychotherapy and Personal Moral Qualities.

The Values of counselling and psychotherapy as listed in the BACP ethical framework are the foundation on which principles are informed.  Counsellors working under the BACP framework commit to holding the following values in their professional work:

“Respecting human rights and dignity

Protecting the safety of clients

Ensuring the integrity of practitioner-client relationships

Enhancing the quality of professional knowledge ...

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