Language and Communication.

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Language and Communication.

There is a distinct difference between language and communication.  The two express our feelings, our thoughts and intentions, but in very different ways. Language can be defined as distinctly human; either spoken or written, it is unique to our race.  “Humans are designed to talk. Our entire species is defined by the fact that we can talk. Dogs can’t talk; birds can’t talk; orang-utans can’t talk. Dolphins seem to be able to communicate by clicks and whistles, but even they can’t talk. Language is a uniquely human skill that makes us who we are.”  Communication, on the other hand, is something that many species share, a method of conversing using ‘signs, symbols or behaviour’. 

I intend, in this essay, to discuss the developing language and communicative abilities of an infant. I will separate the essay into three headings: nonverbal communication, language as sound and written and spoken media.  

A child is not born with developed communication skills; however, he gathers them quickly to survive and express his needs.  By the time a child is one year old, he cannot communicate verbally, but he can be given his favourite toy by pointing to it, ask to be lifted up by outstretching his arms, and accept items such as food dishes.  He is simultaneously absorbing all the sounds around him, anticipating the day that he can identify each individual phoneme in his mother tongue as having meaning, and be able to associate the sound to the object it represents- “mama” being one of the most common first words- this is not unusual as the mother is the usually the figure in closest contact with the child.  These individual sounds are the building blocks of a complex language, all the rules of which are learned implicitly in the space of a few short years, a feat very few adults among us could accomplish.  This is why children are called ‘the greatest learners in the world’.  Nonverbal communication and gestures do not diminish in importance as the child grows and learns to speak, though, as I will show.  They indeed play a huge part in the child’s development into adulthood.  

         

        

Non-verbal communication

Nonverbal communication is deceptively important in how we express ourselves.  It is hard to measure exactly what percentage of our communication is nonverbal: Ray Birdwhistell, who coined the phrase ‘kinesics’- whole body nonverbal communication- gave, in 1972, one of the lowest figures of 65%, psychologist Albert Mehrabian claimed in 1971 that it was 93%; Kramer from Seinfeld says 94%.  

For the first two years or so of a child’s life, they must, in the absence of a developed vocabulary, be content with communicating their needs non-verbally.  This is of very little problem to them: they can easily express a number of wishes without words: they grab for their bottle, point at items they want and almost from birth, these actions can be accompanied by a smile.  As they grow and learn the gestures that are directed at them daily, the child can wave and blow kisses at his departing parent.  As a baby and young child, the movements usually take the place of speech.  However, as the child ages he learns that communication can be more effective if used both verbally and nonverbally simultaneously.  Furthermore, as he grows, so too does his ability to communicate using more elaborate gestures. However, as an infant, the child used his gestures to convey emotional needs- to point to something he wanted or to reach out to be lifted up- but as a older child, they are used for various other purposes, such as to exaggerate or empathise a point.  One common childish nonverbal move that many parents could often do without is the child stomping one foot on the ground while crossing their arms defiantly and shouting “NO!”  Another, more of a nonverbal warning for the parents really, is the quivering lower lip, a danger sign that there may be trouble ahead.  

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Non-verbal communication in children can often be quite helpful to adults in understanding them.  Children are usually quite poor at hiding strong emotions, so if something is bothering them, and the child won’t tell, the problem can often be deciphered by watching the child’s bodily movements.  If another person has caused the grievance, the child’s stance and facial expression towards that person may give it away easily- a typical position is the body bent in a ‘c’ shape away from the wrong-doer, arms crossed, with a scowl and eyes narrowed at him/her.  

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