Sexuality education is the lifelong process of building a strong foundation for sexual health

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Facts on Sex Education

Sexuality education is the lifelong process of building a strong foundation for sexual health. Sexuality education takes place on a daily basis in homes, schools, faith-based institutions, and through the media. While this topic is often discussed, myths and misunderstandings persist. This fact sheet is designed to clarify this issue for parents, educators, health care professionals, policymakers, the media, and others so they can better understand the complexities and the importance of sexuality education.

(Published in the SIECUS Report, Volume 29, Number 6 - August/September 2001)

LEARNING ABOUT SEXUALITY 

Sexuality education is a lifelong process of acquiring information and forming attitudes, beliefs, and values. It encompasses sexual development, reproductive health, interpersonal relationships, affection, intimacy, body image, and gender roles. Sexuality education addresses the biological, sociocultural, psychological, and spiritual dimensions of sexuality from the cognitive domain (information); the affective domain (feelings, values, and attitudes); and the behavioral domain (communication and decision-making skills).1 

Sexuality education begins at home. Parents and caregivers are—and ought to be—the primary sexuality educators of their children. Teachable moments—opportunities to discuss sexuality issues with children—occur on a daily basis. From the moment of birth, children learn about love, touch, and relationships. Infants and toddlers learn about sexuality when their parents talk to them, dress them, show affection, play with them, and teach them the names of the parts of their bodies. As children grow into adolescence, they continue to receive messages about sexual behaviors, attitudes, and values from their families and within their social environment.

Some parents and caregivers are comfortable discussing sexuality issues with their kids. Others feel anxious about providing too much information or embarrassed about not knowing answers to questions that are asked. Honest, open communication between parents and children—through childhood, the pre-teen years, adolescence, and young adulthood— can help lay the foundation for young people to mature into sexually healthy adults.

Young people also learn about sexuality from other sources. These include friends, teachers, neighbors, television, music, books, advertisements, toys, and the Internet. They also frequently learn through planned opportunities in faith communities, community-based agencies, and schools.

SEXUALITY EDUCATION IN THE HOME

Research has shown that parents and children have a wide range of comfort levels when it comes to discussing sexuality. However, children consistently report wanting to receive information about sexuality from their parents.

  1. In one study of 687 students in grades 9 through 12, 38% said they wanted to talk to their parents about sex. Of the 405 parents surveyed for this study, 58% felt that their teens wanted to talk to them about sex.2 
  2. One study of 374 parents of students in grades 7 through 12 found that 65% of parents were “somewhat comfortable” or “very comfortable” talking to their teens about sexuality.3 
  3. Talking with Kids about Tough Issues, a study released in 2001 by the Kaiser Family Foundation, Nickelodeon, and Children Now, surveyed 1,249 parents of children eight to15 years of age and 823 children in that age group. The study found that 32% of children were “very comfortable” and 45% were “kind of comfortable” talking to their parents about puberty; 42% were “very comfortable” and 45% “kind of comfortable” talking to their parents about HIV/AIDS; 27% were “very comfortable” and 29% were “kind of comfortable” talking to their parents about the basics of sexual reproduction; and 43% were “very comfortable” and 38% were “kind of comfortable” talking with their parents about what it means to be gay.4 

Research shows that parents and children do discuss numerous issues related to sexuality, but that, the frequency of these discussions and the topics covered vary.

  1. In a study published by the Journal of School Health, almost all parents (94%) reported that they had talked to their teens about sexuality. However, only 9% believed that most parents adequately communicated with their teens about sexuality.5 
  2. Talking with Kids about Tough Issues found that 65% of parents reported talking to their children about puberty, 59% about the basic facts of sexual reproduction, 55% about HIV or AIDS, and 52% about what it means to be gay.6 
  3. In addition, among respondents in that study whose children were between the ages of 12 and 15, 49% discussed how to know when he/she is ready to have a sexual relationship, 54% discussed how to handle pressure to have sex, and 32% discussed what kinds of birth control are available and where to get it.7 
  4. In another study, parents report speaking “a great deal” or “a moderate amount” with their children about the responsibilities of being a parent (46%), STDs (40%), dating relationships (37%), and not having sexual intercourse until marriage (35%). In contrast the parents reported that they spoke to their children “not very much” or “not at all” about masturbation (79%), prostitution (68%), pornography (63%), and abortion (55%).8 
  5. It is important to note that parents and children do not always agree about the content or frequency of these conversations. In Talking With Kids About Tough Issues, 59% of eight to11 year olds whose parents say they talked to them about HIV/AIDS do not recall the conversation, nor do 39% of eight to11 years olds whose parents say they talked to them about the basics of sexual reproduction, or 36% of eight to11 years olds whose parents say they talked to them about puberty.9 
  6. In another study, 98% of parents felt they had communicated with their teens about alcohol use, drug use, and sex while only 76% of teens said these discussions took place.10

Teens consistently rank their parents as one of their primary sources of information on sexuality issues and studies have shown that adult-child communication can decrease sexual risk behaviors.

  1. Talking With Kids About Tough Issues found that 50% of children said they learned “a lot” about sex, “treating people who are different,” drugs, alcohol, and violence from their mothers, 38% from their fathers, and 32% from other people in their families.11 
  2. A 1999 study released by the Kaiser Family Foundation found that 59% of adolescents 10 to 12 years of age and 45% of adolescents 13 to15 years of age said that they personally learned the “most” about sexuality from their parents.12 
  3. A study published in the Journal of Adolescent Research found that parent-teen discussions about condoms were related to greater condom use at last intercourse, greater lifetime condom use, and greater consistent condom use.13 
  4. In addition, a study of the role of adult mentors found that youth who reported having a mentor were significantly less likely to have had sexual intercourse with more than one partner in the six months prior to the study than their peers who reported not having an adult mentor.14 

SCHOOL-BASED SEXUALITY EDUCATION 

School-based sexuality education complements and augments the sexuality education children receive from their families, religious and community groups, and health care professionals. The primary goal of school-based sexuality education is to help young people build a foundation as they mature into sexually healthy adults. Such programs respect the diversity of values and beliefs represented in the community.

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Sexuality education seeks to assist young people in understanding a positive view of sexuality, provide them with information and skills about taking care of their sexual health, and help them make sound decisions now and in the future.

Comprehensive sexuality education programs have four main goals:

  1. to provide accurate information about human sexuality
  2. to provide an opportunity for young people to develop and understand their values, attitudes, and beliefs about sexuality
  3. to help young people develop relationships and interpersonal skills, and
  4. to help young people exercise responsibility regarding sexual relationships, including addressing abstinence, ...

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