Ashley Dillard

September 24, 2007

Gay Marriages

The acceptance of gay marriages tends to vary throughout the world. While many areas continue to persecute the approval of homosexual unions, others have grown to accept it. Personally, I am rather indifferent to the concept of gay marriages. While I do not fully advocate it, I also do not denounce its existence. From a non-religious perspective, I believe that if two persons of the same sex desire to join in the union of marriage, they should be given the opportunity.

Denying gay marriages is a violation of religious freedom. Civil and religious marriages are two different institutions. I do not believe that “sanctity” in marriage exists anymore, because people can be married by their state, rather than under their church, and this should not be used as support to civil union laws. To say that these unions should be restricted to only males and females would be a contradiction to the disparity between religion and the government. The main reason to denying marriage to gay couples is that all major religions consider homosexuality a sin. It doesn’t hurt society or anyone in particular. A marriage is a relationship between two people that have a personal commitment. Society and the church shouldn’t dictate what two can or can’t do. Even if society disapproves it, that’s their right but they can’t stop it.

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The only thing that should matter in a relationship is love. The number one reason that heterosexuals marry is not to establish legal status, allow joint filing of taxes, or protect each other in medical decision-making. They marry because it is the ultimate expression of a person's love for another. Why should it matter that the couple doesn’t fit into what the society is used to? If you allow gay people to marry each other, you no longer encourage them to marry people to whom they feel little attraction, with whom they most often cannot relate adequately sexually, bringing innocent ...

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