Interview with a fellow student.

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Interview with a fellow student.

Introduction.

After carrying out an interview with a fellow student, who will be referred to as interviewee or client for confidentiality reasons, I will report how their identity has impacted on their life.  To do this I will need to define my own identity so that I can understand and explore difference and diversity.  I will explore power and discrimination within client A’s life and draw on evidence, theories and experience.  During the second part of the essay I am going to analyse the interview process where I will apply communication theories.

A brief analysis of my own identity would be that I am a white women aged twenty, born in Britain who is not religious.  I base my class on my family so I consider myself middle class as I live alone with my mother who owns her own home and is employed in a professional and managerial role.  Others may consider me not to hold a class, as I am a student.  My family is very important to me and is the basis of the majority of my values.  I am not married nor do I have any children.

The interviewee is a white woman aged 42, born and brought up in Manchester.  Who considers herself working class and from a working class family.  She has two bothers a sister and three children.  The interviewee was married to the father of her first two children but they separated ten years ago and are now divorced.  The client has experienced a great deal of loss and death as her mother, sister and partner (who is the father of the clients youngest son) have all died of cancer within the last eight years.  The interviewee does not follow a faith or have any religious beliefs.

Both the interviewee and myself share similarities in our identity such as gender, race and religious beliefs. However, every person is individual and like any two people we have differences in identity.  There is an age gap of over twenty years between the client and I and a difference in class.  The client is a single mother who has had many different experiences than me.  The interviewee has experienced the death of a spouse and very close family members, which I cannot relate to.  This has impacted on her life a great deal.  The client’s traumatic life experiences have impacted on her so much due to the severity of them.  This has resulted in her having a stronger and more independent character “these experiences that I have gone through have made me a stronger person, I’ve noticed a change in me and others have noticed” (Interviewee 2003).  Therefore the client’s experiences have had a considerable change and effect on her identity.  

The interviewee considers herself to have coped well being a single parent and has a good relationship with her children.  Single parents especially single mothers are often stereotyped as people who get pregnant just to receive state support.  The client has experienced discrimination on one occasion due to being a single mum, during a telephone conversation with a lady from the school that the client’s youngest son attends.  The conversation was a result of the client requesting information on the schools curriculum.  When the client told the lady who helped her son with his homework the lady said “oh dad not around then!” (Interviewee 2003) in a disrespectful tone of voice, the client went on to explain that her son’s father had died, the lady responded with an apology and was much friendlier.  Although the client is a single parent through no fault of her own, such stereotypes could of easily affected her self-image.  “The emphasis on the nuclear family as ’normal’ thus defines other family forms as ’deviant’ and undesirable” (Lentell Helen 1998 cited in Thompson 2001 pg42).  

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The interviewee feels that being female has not given her advantages or disadvantages.  She has not experienced direct gender discrimination whist employed but feels that she was discriminated against for voicing her opinion.  Whilst working in a day centre with a male manager the interviewee stated that she would not agree with the manager just because of his authority and that she would stand up for what she believed to be right, the manager responded by saying “what I say goes without question…it doesn’t really matter what you think” (Interviewee 2003).  The interviewee then had an application refused for ...

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