A Contemporary Comparison of the Rules of Etiquettes in Nonverbal Communication
A Contemporary Comparison of the Rules of Etiquettes in Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal communication is an important aspect of social interactions. It can add depth to the conversation, indicate one’s position, or clarify an idea or object. It can also be an indication of reverence or familiarity, or of disrespect or disregard. As such, proper nonverbal etiquette is important in both personal and business settings. Rules of nonverbal etiquette fluctuates between different cultures, with some rules preferred in one region and their opposite desired in another. Cultural differences are seen most prominently in three aspects of nonverbal communication: proximity, gestures, and facial expressions.
The standard set of rules of the etiquette of proximity is almost invariably segregated by the different regions of the world. In some countries, it is expected for people to stand close to one another, while large private space is preferred in others. Argentineans are generally very sociable and they tend to stand close to one another when speaking. Likewise, Chinese people generally feel comfortable to stand in close proximity to one another. In an interview, Dr. Song, who had resided in China for 30 years, said that “the Chinese are very conscientious of politeness. Standing apart in a conversation is taken by them as an avoidance of directness.” Thus, in general, the Chinese regard standing close as representing willingness to be truthful. The Australians, on the other hand, insist upon free space, and feel hemmed in if people stand too close to them. Similarly, Indians, Japanese, and Americans like to keep their distance from one another. They tend to value personal space and feel uncomfortable if encroached.
