Peer Pressure Speech Go on." "Everybody’s doing it." "It’s only one drink." "You’re such a loser."I didn’t know what to do. All these voices were repeating themselves over and over in my head. I didn’t want to give into them because I knew what I was doing was wrong. I didn’t want everyone to think I was scared but what if my parents found out. Why was I here? Are these people really my friends if they are really doing this to me? These were the vital questions that I didn’t know the answers to. I knew in my heart it was wrong but I gave in.This is usually the typical outcome of a scene like this. It is called peer pressure. It can be disguised in many different forms. In this speech I am going to look at different ways in which teenagers can be influenced by peer pressure.Many teenagers experiment with cigarettes, drugs or alcohol. It is likely that they take their first cigarette, drink or drug because of pressure from peers or friends.The influence of friends who smoke is the main reason teenagers start, although you are also more likely to start if your parents do. Cigarettes, like alcohol, are an acquired taste but over eight per cent of people who smoke in their teens become permanently hooked.Often adolescents drink to feel less uncomfortable and more relaxed with friends and peers and because they are encouraged to do so by other teenagers. Regular excessive drinking can lead to poor school work, social and emotional problems, the use of other drugs and sometimes even suicide,The main difference between alcohol or cigarettes and other drugs is that once you
are over a certain age you can legally buy alcohol and cigarettes. The use of cannabis, Ecstasy, Heroin, Cocaine, LSD and amphetamines is illegal at any age. Although drugs are easy to get hold of nowadays, and many people think they should be legalised, taking them involves breaking the law. If you are caught, you might be prosecuted. If you are found in possession of more than a small quantity, you risk more serious charges of 'possession with intent to supply, or dealing.Another issue that teenagers are faced with and usually try to avoid is crime. People aged between ten ...
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are over a certain age you can legally buy alcohol and cigarettes. The use of cannabis, Ecstasy, Heroin, Cocaine, LSD and amphetamines is illegal at any age. Although drugs are easy to get hold of nowadays, and many people think they should be legalised, taking them involves breaking the law. If you are caught, you might be prosecuted. If you are found in possession of more than a small quantity, you risk more serious charges of 'possession with intent to supply, or dealing.Another issue that teenagers are faced with and usually try to avoid is crime. People aged between ten and twenty-one commit half of all crimes. Ninety per cent of these involve breaking into buildings, theft of property or other vandalism. Most people get involved in crimes such as shoplifting, joyriding, vandalism or arson just for the thrill of getting away with it. Teenagers often steal things they don’t even want or need. Usually these crimes are committed without thought or planning, and repeated only occasionally for a period of a few months, until the excitement begins to wear off. For some teenagers shoplifting or stealing cars begins as a bit of fun but it can get out of hand and crime can become a habit. Teenage boys are at more risk of getting into trouble than girls, however the amount of 'girl gangs committing crimes is becoming more and more common. In 1957 girls accounted for only one crime in eleven. These days girls commit more than one in four of all juvenile crimes. Friends often encourage each other to go much further than anyone would alone; when you are in a crowd, it is easier to get carried away.Breaking the law might be common amongst adolescents, but it is certainly not without risk. People get caught! If you do commit crime, it is likely that you will get in trouble with the police sooner or later. This can cause trouble when applying for a job or a university and can affect your chances of getting in.If the risks are so high, then why do people do it? Perhaps it is because they are bored or short of money but it is more likely that it is done just for the thrill of getting away with it. Teenagers sometimes think of it as a way of testing how much you can get away with. If it is found to be addictive, particularly if tempted to do it alone, it may be a sign of depression or unhappiness.Some adolescents especially females become so concerned about weight control that they take drastic and dangerous measures to remain thin. Some overeat and then force themselves to vomit to avoid gaining weight. This pattern is associated with an eating disorder called bulimia. Another eating disorder is called anorexia nervosa. This is when young women actually starve themselves to keep their weight down. Adolescents with eating disorders have an extremely disturbed body image. They see themselves as "fat" when they are really underweight. Bulimia and anorexia are rare before the age of ten. Girls often turn to bulimia and anorexia because they believe it will make them happier, more successful and more popular.Topics that have been mentioned to try to explain why young people turn to eating disorders include social pressure on girls to be slim, stress effects on the functioning of brain centres controlling eating, expression of underlying personality disorder or a reaction to a conflict-ridden family situation.Treatment given to anorexia or bulimia includes counselling, psychotherapy or drugs. The main symptoms linked with eating disorders are severe weight loss, low blood pressure and a slow heart beat. Many anorexics isolate themselves.Many teenagers, at some stage in their lives, come across the problem of bullying. This is the constant nit picking, fault finding and criticism of a trivial nature. Most bullying is traceable to toe person - male or female. Bullying is not a gender issue. Each year between ten and twelve children kill themselves in the UK because they are being bullied at school and no one in authority is doing anything to tackle the bullying. Failure by a school to implement an effective and active anti-bullying policy in a breech in duty of care."He who passively accepts evil is as much involved in it as he who helps to perpetrate It." - Martin Luther King.Here is the bully’s point of view -I have never actually set out to bully someone myself. It usually comes about when someone is being annoyed and provides an amusing reaction that I begin to join in. at the time you do not see it as bullying, although you may have doubts later. I do not think there is anyone at school who has not bullied someone in one way or another.A victim’s point of view -When I was at primary school I got picked on non-stop for two years. No one talked to me. I hadn’t done anything to get blamed for; I still do not know the reason I got picked on. I wasn’t wealthier or poorer or a different race.Friends and peers can place a lot of importance on having a girlfriend or boyfriend. It’s tough if you are the only one in your group without a partner, especially when dating is often seen as a way of confirming your attractiveness to yourself and those around you. Some people are just not interested in having a relationship until they are older; others might not want, or be allowed, to have a boyfriend or girlfriend for religious or cultural reasons. Whatever your reasons are for not dating, you might find that your peers tease or put pressure on you. Some young people believe that having a sexual relationship will make them more grown up. However, maturity is not about when you start having sex. It is about waiting for the right time and the right person, and making sure it does not all end in tears.Some people end up having sex not because it is what they really want, but because they feel unable to resist pressure from their partners. People sometimes confuse sex with affection and hope that agreeing to sex will lead to more commitment from their partner, or will make them feel loved. Unfortunately this is not always the case.Peer pressure can often mean that your needs and wishes are ignored, and when that happens life can become more difficult to cope with. Sometimes it can lead to depression. Depression can make people feel bad-tempered, moody and worried, and they may develop other symptoms such as headaches or stomachaches. Some sufferers feel short of energy and want to sleep all the time; others will have difficulty in sleeping and become very tired. Tiredness, lack of interest and difficulty in concentrating can affect schoolwork. Depressed people often lose interest in hobbies and activities and feel cut off from the people around them. They feel worthless and believe they have no power to change the situation they are in. some young people turn to drug or alcohol abuse, sleeping around, crime, skipping school or running away from home. These can all be ways of distracting themselves from their feelings.Depression has to be taken seriously and sufferers need to seek immediate help. Counselling, psychotherapy or sometimes medication can make recovery quicker and easier.
