Allah says in Qur’an, surah 2, verse 228, "and women shall have the rights similar to the rights against them, according to what is equitable"
A man came to Prophet Muhammad asking, "O Messenger of Allah, who among the people is the most worthy of my good companionship?" The Prophet said, "Your mother". The man said, "Then, who is next?" The Prophet said, "Your mother". The man said, "Then, who is next?" The Prophet said, "Your mother". The man further asked, "Then who is next?" Only then did the Prophet say, "Your father."
This shows the importance that Islam gives to women.
Islamic teaching about modesty states that men and women, but especially women, should cover themselves up and present themselves modestly so that men do not stare at them. This is not compulsory however, but most women choose to do it anyway. This shows that women do not feel that they are treated inferior to men and being forced to wear it. Instead of totally covering themselves up completely in some countries, they just dress modestly by covering their heads or wearing a scarf. They never wear anything tight.
Modesty and faith are joined closely together; if either of them is lost, the other goes also. Every religion has a special character; the characteristic of Islam is modesty” [Hadith]
This is an example of how Islamic teaching about women is applied in every day life. Men also have to dress modestly. Women do not have to go to the mosque, but instead pray at home. This reflects the teaching about women having to bring up the household. Since this is their duty, they are allowed to pray at home. Because women are not seen as objects, but as equals to men they are given a dowry from the husband when they get married. This is to show that the woman is not just an object to fulfil any sexual desires, or work for him, but that she is a human being. A man being allowed to have more than one wife is not just a benefit to the man. The woman chooses whether or not she wants to marry a man with a wife already, or if the man she is marrying is allowed to have more than one wife after her. It is entirely her choice. By allowing her husband to have more than one wife she will benefit by the fact that there will be someone else to help her bring up the children and to bring up the household. The man is allowed to have more than one wife, but the woman decides it in the end. In Islam, the woman can have any job she pleases, since they are equals. If a woman chooses to work, it is entirely her choice but she does not have to.
The husband should treat the wife with respect and not take her for granted. He should not think of her a servant and that she must make his dinner. She doesn’t but she probably does because marriage in Islam is give and take. He should consult her when making decisions, because women are just as important and clever as men. So Muslim couples discuss things and work things out together and do not take each other for granted.
Women have as much of a right to pray in a mosque as a man, since everyone is equal.
“All people are equal…as the teeth of a comb. No Arab can claim merit over a non-Arab, nor a white over a black person, nor a male over a female” [Hadith]
What happens is that the men pray at the front, while the women pray at the back behind a sheet or curtain. The reason for the men being at the front is not that men are superior, but to prevent any flirtatious thoughts by the men and help them focus on Allah rather than the opposite sex.
There are many rules concerning women, and these have been incorporated into modern life so that they still hold true to the rule.
