The Great Gatsby's Love

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        Daisy and Gatsby fell in love before he left for the war in 1917. Gatsby had lied to try to impress the girl he found so charming and elegant, and it worked. Daisy promised to wait for his return. However, two years later, desperate for someone to love her, she did not pass at the opportunity to marry Tom. Throughout the first half of the novel we came to understand the void in Daisy’s life, Gatsby. Both characters have led successful lives up to this point, and both are unfulfilled. After a life of chasing after this one girl, the question before us remains, “was it worth it for Gatsby?”  I’ve decided that in some ways it was, but in others it most certainly wasn’t.

        Seeing as in the end Gatsby paid his life to try and conciliate Daisy, it is easy to believe that things were not worth it for him. It seems as though Gatsby is in love with the Daisy from 1917, because he hasn’t seen her since. He has worked his whole life to finally impress that girl, who has most certainly changed. Nevertheless Gatsby proves his seemingly unconditional love for her when he takes the blame for Myrtle’s death, resulting in his own. Maybe everything he had done for Daisy still could have been worth it for Gatsby, if Daisy had truly loved Gatsby, or even respected him. But Daisy neither loved nor respected Gatsby, despite the fact that she declared, “I love you now” (pg 120). It seems as though Gatsby’s struggle was worthless in the end. Since he was still living as if it were 1917 Gatsby sacrificed his life for someone who, in my opinion, was not worth dying for. Although it can be argued that giving up your life for someone you love is a good thing, it is not the case in The Great Gatsby.

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        Gatsby didn’t even know who she was anymore; I don’t think Daisy was worth the pain and effort he went to, to acquire his status. The fact of the matter is that Gatsby had been lying to Daisy since they met. He told her stories of his background to impress her, and set himself higher than the rest of the men who fancied her. “He let her believe that he was a person from much the same stratum as herself- that he was able to take care of her. As a matter of fact, he had no such facilities- he ...

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