The Marriage Debate.

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The Marriage Debate.

 This includes stories about the conflict between men and women in marriage; the propriety or otherwise of marrying more than once; whether the old ought to marry the young; and the sin or otherwise of adultery. A medieval marriage was often illustrated by a man and woman each pulling at a pair of trousers.

As nearly all marriages were arranged for economic reasons; very few married for love. Furthermore, the absence of husbands on crusade (a kind of on-going Gulf War), or in the Hundred Years' war with France, led to an eager rivalry between landless young aristocrats (squires) for the 'favour' of attractive young wives, wealthy widows, or spinster heiresses, left in command of castles and manors. In order to bring order to the stampede, a complex system of codes of behaviour came into existence by which the aspring young man had to prove his ardour by undertaking some 'labour of love' or quest. This had the advantage of getting rid of an over-eager pest for a space of time in which he might prove his bravery and grow up. It was a very elaborate survival of the fittest.

Lower down the social scale such devious niceties were dispensed with, and both the Miller and the Merchant's stories are about sexual opportunists. The Merchant's Tale is one of a group of four in the Canterbury Tales that concern marriage, which includes the Tales of the Wife of Bath, the Clerk, the Merchant, and the Franklin. The Wife of Bath's Prologue gives an account of her marrying four elderly men for their money and then, when she is forty, her teenage apprentice for love. Her Tale suggests that only when the wife has the 'maistry', can a marriage be happy. The Clerk's Tale on the other hand is an account of an overbearing husband, who subjects his young wife to indignities in order to prove her love for him, and magnanimously and patronisingly takes her back, when he finds she is truly obedient. The Merchant's Tale is about a young wife who deceives her elderly husband, and the Franklin's Tale concludes that both husband and wife must be equal partners for true happiness in marriage to exist.

Accordingly, he indulges in some wishful-thinking about a wife who is `so trewe, and eek so ententyf to keep him, syk and hool, as is his make' and has a desire to love and serve. At this point the Merchant himself intervenes to say that scholars, including the well-known classical misogynist Theofrastus, recommend a reliable servant as being more use than a wife, who is `only after thy good'. However, January thinks about a wife being `Goddes yifte...a paradys terrestre...whoo seith not ones `nay' when he seith `ye'. To reinforce his belief, he recalls the names of some virtuous wives from the Bible.

The story resumes at line 149 with January sending for his friends to tell them of his decision, and, after some hypocritical cant about `upon my soule somewhat moste I think', announces that she must be under twenty, because `a yonge thing may men gye...like warm wex', whereas anyone over thirty was but `bene-straw and greet forage', and only good enough for feeding to cattle. He also boasts that his prowess is undiminished with his `limes stark and suffisaunt'. His friends held conflicting opinions about marriage, as did his two brothers.

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One, Placebo, living up to his name, says that he has `never hem contraried' and the other, Justinius, tells January to find out beforehand `wher she be wys, or sobre or drokelewe or a wastour of thy good'. He gives him three years' happiness at most. January decides to follow his own choice and `chees hir of his owene auctoritee', especially as he already seems to have discovered `a mayden in the toun of beautee', who, despite her `smal degree' socially, would appear to have the desired attributes of `a myddel smal, and armes longe and sclendre'. Justinius again urges ...

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