We have no choice, you and I, but to obey our instructions. We are not free to follow our own devices, you and I.
which suggests that she is unhappy. This is interpreted badly by Pip as to mean that she wants more between them than is allowed, whereas she could mean exactly the opposite. Pip recognises however her reluctance and an awkward air of orders being carried out when he says;
She drew her arm through mine, as if it must be done
As a child Miss Havisham always encouraged Pip to like Estella with influential dialogue such as "And never see her again, though she is so pretty?". But it becomes dramatically apparent that Estella wants to discourage Pip from following Miss Havisham's encouragements;
'Will you never take warning? Or do you kiss my hand in the spirit I once let you kiss my cheek?'
and although she seems to have started off the visit quite mannered and nicer to Pip she soon returns to arrogant and supercilious with lines such as;
'you must not expect me to go to school to you; I must talk in my own way.'
which also suggests that she is trying to distance herself from Pip. However she does seem to show a trust and dependence upon Pip when she entrusts him with her purse and although she does so coldly, holds his arm. Is that just a way to lure him?
Pip is well aware that she tries to lure him as he says in Chapter 29 "She treated me as a boy still, but she lured me on". But even this sense of Estella trying to manipulate Pip as Pip now knows is the plan of Miss Havisham does not dissuade him as he says;
It was impossible for me to avoid seeing that she cared to attract me; and that she made herself winning; and would have won me even if the task had needed pains.
he obviously knows the intentions of Miss Havisham "to wreak revenge on all the male sex" when he continues with
she held my heart in her hand because it would have wrung any tenderness in her, to crush it and throw it away
In Chapter 33 she calls Pip a "silly boy" as a derogatory term, echoing earlier episodes when she regularly referred to him, although a peer as "boy". Although actually for the first time in the novel she also called him "Pip". Is this Estella purposely trying to make Pip think they are closer or their relationship has changed in some way, maybe more intimate than before in the novel.
Throughout the chapter Estella remains quite composed and a strong character whilst Pip explicitly hints at his feelings towards Estella and drifts off into daydreams; "having forgotten everything but herself", he obviously has stronger feeling towards her than her feeling to him, if she has any at all, which, although hinted at have not been explicitly shown. Even when we do see a hint that Estella does have feelings for Pip, we must also remember that Pip, as narrator, is biased, as wishful thinking possibly.
As a very small point, but one that may show a point in the story of importance, Estella says "kiss my cheek" whereas Pip says "kiss the cheek" could this be Pip trying to distance himself from Estella, show a hardening to her temptations? Pip says;
Her reverting to this tone as if our association were forced upon us…gave me pain…Whatever her tone with me happened to be, I could put no trust in it, and build no hope on it;
which tells the reader that he is hardening to her effects, but Pip obviously adores her too much when he continues;
I went on against trust and hope
continuing the idea that he does not just love her, but has become obsessed by Estella. However, it is made explicitly obvious that she can certainly live without Pip and intends to do so. But she continues to, obvious to the reader if not to Pip, encourage his beliefs of her mutual feelings when she says "indeed you are already mentioned" which suggests to Pip that he is considered by Estella often, although we do not know who mentioned Pip, as it could just be the plans of Miss Havisham for Pip to visit. If the reader views Estella as completely manipulative and heartless, then this being the first time in the novel that she calls Pip by his name could be seen as Estella trying to drag Pip further into her net and Pip realise this, although he still continues to let it work. Chapter 33 is a key point where Pip realises Estella's true intentions, or at least begins to see through her plans.
