The Minister now gives everyone at the wedding the opportunity to declare if they know of a reason why the couple may not legally be married. A short pause allows for anyone to answer. If nobody speaks out the couple then make the promises that they will love, comfort, honour and protect each other during their lifetime. The Minister asks the couple’s families to support and uphold them in the marriage in the years to come. The Minister asks the congregation to pray silently and asks God to bless the couple.
A reading from the Bible follows the prayer.
The Minister says the vows for the couple to repeat while they hold hands. The wording of the vows can vary depending on the service which has already been opted for.
The best man hands the rings to the Minister who says a short prayer. The couple exchange rings and say a few words to each other.
With the congregation standing, the Minister declares that the couple are joined in holy matrimony as husband and wife.
Prayers are said for the couple as they kneel in front of the altar. One of the prayers may be for the couple to have children and will end with the Lord’s Prayer.
The Minister says a short prayer which is about Father, Son and Holy Spirit
being with the couple always.
Sometimes the register is signed after the Minister has declared them husband and wife but it is more usual to sign it after the prayer about the Trinity. While music is being played to the congregation, the bride and groom, together with two witnesses, usually the best man and chief bridesmaid, go into a side room to sign the register. They then receive their marriage certificate which is legally binding.