Psychology theories of Attraction

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Psychology Coursework: Introduction

Attraction, or physical attraction, can be described as what romantically draws people together.

The "Exchange Theory" developed by Thibut and Kelly (1959), explains that a relationship will be successful, dependant upon gains and loses by each person. This means it is rather like a "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours" theory for a relationship.

The Matching Hypothesis is the tendency for people to select their partners who are alike them in looks, or education or social upbringing.

Relative to this theory, Towhey (1979) asked males and females how much they thought they would like a person whose photograph they had studied. They were also given biological information, such as height, age etc. The results showed that those who scored highest on the Macho Scale (dealing with sexist attitudes and stereotypes) were more influenced by physical attractiveness, compared to those scoring lower being almost unaffected. This doesn't necessarily support the Matching Hypothesis, but it shows that participants preferred more attractive partners.

Similarly, Dunbar and Waynforth (1995) conducted a study, analysing 900 "personal" adverts in 4 USA newspapers. They noted down details of all adverts, and then grouped the entire data dependant on gender. They found 44% of males wanted a physically attractive partner, opposed to 22% of women. These results can help with expectations on the study that will be performed. Perhaps the results will include the males rated higher in attractiveness that the women, based on Dunbar and Waynforth's results.

Silverman (1971) wanted to investigate the matching hypothesis theory in a more ecologically valid way. He assembled an observational team comprising of 2 males and 2 females as dating couples in natural settings, such as pubs and clubs. Each observer rated the attractiveness of the couples out of 5. it was found that there was a high degree of similarity in the couples' level of attractiveness. It was also noted that there was more physical intimacy between the couples that were most similar to each other. 60% of the most similar couples showed signs of intimacy such as holding hands etc. whilst only 22% of the couples labelled as dissimilar showed such behaviours. This therefore supports the matching hypothesis.

Walster (1966) conducted the "computer dance" study, to investigate the matching hypothesis. He took 752 student and they each filled out a questionnaire. They were told that they would be allocated a partner on the basis of their questionnaire, when in fact the pairings were made at random. Four judges rated their physical attractiveness, unknown to the students. The students were then paired up one evening at a dance. Walster found that the more attractive students were liked more than their partners than the less attractive ones.

This study doesn't support the Matching Hypothesis, as physical attractiveness was the most important factor in liking, above intelligence and personality. The study has low ecological validity, as in real life people are not allocated pre-assigned dates. However in some religions arranged marriages are common, however not in our culture. When the students were interviewed later on, they said they were more likely to date people of a similar physical attractiveness, which supports the Matching Hypothesis. The study has got some ethical problems, as the students didn't know they were being judged on appearance. This could have caused minor psychological harm in some students, who maybe very self-conscious. To overcome this, Walster could have got their permission to judge them in a consent form.

A study that supports the Matching Hypothesis even more is Murstein (1972). He took photographs of "steady or engaged" couples, and participants compared them to couples randomly paired up for the experiment.

Murstein found that couples that scored highly in similarity in attractiveness were the "real" couples. In this study, it should have been essential that consent form were handed to all participants, especially those that posed in photographs. This is because some participants could feel uneasy about being physically rated, and should have the right to withdraw at any time.

Murstein summarised his findings as:

"Individuals with equal market value for physical attractiveness are more likely to associate in an intimate relationship such as engagement than individuals with disparate values."
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This study will be based upon Murtsein's experiment, investigating if the Matching Hypothesis is really true. As it can be seen in the previous studies above, not all support the Matching Hypothesis. Therefore it is proposed to test this theory. It is suspected that the Matching hypothesis is true, as Murstein conducted a very strong study to support it; he found true couples were equally as attractive as each other. As Murstein has given the study a direction for a hypothesis, it is one-tailed. Walster has also helped form a hypothesis, as in a real-life setting, with high ...

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