The impact of early secure attachment on relationships

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“Following the British psychiatrist John Bowlby’s claim that secure attachment to a parental figure is necessary for healthy psychological development, opinions about the impact of early relations have varied wildly.” (Bentall, 2003)

The theory of attachment was originally put forth by John Bowlby as an approach to understanding early development and the formation of relationships.  The central theme of his theory is that babies/young children who have their mother readily available and responsive to their needs develop a strong sense of security and enable them to form emotional attachments.  Young children show their attachment patterns by seeking proximity to primary attachment figures especially in times of fear or distress and use these attachment figures as a secure base from which to explore the world.  Bowlby (1973) felt that these early emotional attachments and relationships form the basis for relationships and social interactions later in life.  Certain events such as separation, death or neglect can have a detrimental impact by interfering with attachment patterns and this can have short and long term consequences.  For the purpose of this essay I will focus on how accurate Bowlby’s claim regarding secure attachment to a parental figure actually is, and whether it can be used to explain onset of  mood disorders such as depression and bipolar by looking at the key theoretical ideas and exploring some of the research findings.

Bowlby (1973) as cited in Gross (2001) argued that because new born babies are completely helpless, they are genetically programmed to behave towards their mothers in ways that ensure their survival.  He felt also that the mother inherited a genetic blueprint which programmes her to respond to her baby.  He felt that there was a critical period in which the attachment was to take place and that if this attachment was delayed until after 12 months that it would never come to fruition.  The child’s attachment to its mother will regulate how far away from the mother the child will move and the amount of fear it will show towards strangers.  In general, attachment behaviours become more obvious if the child is fearful, in unfamiliar surroundings or distressed (Gross, 2001).  Research has found that disruptions such as neglect, death and separation may cause people to grow up fearing abandonment and have problems maintaining relationships (Stone, 1993 as cited in Durand & Barlow, 2010).  

The mother has an automatic bond towards her child having carried him/her for 9 months but research suggests in line with Bowlby’s theory that it is imperative that early contact is available for bonding to occur (Kring, Johnson, Davison & Neale, 2010).  Bowlby (1973) felt that it was vital that the infant/small child should experience a secure, warm and reliable relationship with its mother in order to avoid significant and irreversible mental health consequences later in life.  Infants who are securely attached to their caregivers grow up to be psychologically healthy adults, whereas infants who are anxiously attached to their caregivers are more likely to experience psychological difficulties in life (Kring et al, 2010).

The idea that insecure attachments lead to problems in later life was possibly fuelled by the results of the Copenhagen high-risk study which found an association between positive symptoms and early separation from parents (Skovgaard, Houmann, Christiansen, Landorph & Jorgensen, 2007).  Further evidence came from the Finland Birth Cohort Study in 1966 which found that unwanted pregnancies resulted in a four-fold increase in psychosis in later years implying that parents’ emotional ambivalence towards their children increase the risk that they will grow up to suffer positive symptoms (Bentall, 2003).  Attachment theory has regularly been used to explain the development of psychopathology (Davila, Ramsey, Stroud & Steinberg, 2005) as cited in (Lee & Hankin, 2009).  However, some research has suggested that insecure attachment itself does not cause psychopathology directly, but early childhood attachment, family context and other social experiences may shape a person in such a way that certain developmental pathways are more likely to be followed than others (Lee et al, 2009).  Research has suggested that if a child is exposed to insecure attachments with their primary caregiver during formative years this can increase the risk of a host of problems later in life including mood disorders.  Depression and anxiety are among the most common psychiatric disorders during adolescence and prevalence of major depressive disorder and anxiety disorders increase significantly during adolescence and into adulthood (Costello, Egger & Angold, 2005).  Bowlby (1980) as cited in Lee et al (2009) stated that people form mental representations that include models of the self and others by interacting with their caregiver.  These internal working models he hypothesized to be the framework guiding one’s thoughts, feelings and behaviours in the context of future relationships.

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Holmes (1993) also found that approximately one third of adults will have relationships characterised by anxious, secure attachment and it has been argued that this may provide vulnerability for mental health problems such as depression when people experience stressful or difficult life events.  Bowlby (1973) suggested that loss of, or separation from the mother in childhood, or inadequate relationships with primary care givers can leave a person vulnerable to depression in later life.  This has been confirmed by subsequent research (Lee & Hankin, 2009).  Harris & Bifulco (1991) as cited in Goodwin (2003) found that women who had lost their ...

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