How valid is the assertion that child counselling in Africa is non-existent?

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How valid the assertion that child counselling in Africa is non-existant

The assertion that child counselling in Africa is non-existent is discredited and disqualified to a greater extent. This is because child counselling have been taking place in Africa since the pre-colonial era, as evidenced by guidance and counselling by the elderly people, guidance and counselling programmes at schools, the existence of gender based violence desk at schools, churches offers counselling, through folk tales, through indigenous knowledge systems (IKS), some non-governmental organisations offers counselling session and the existence of youth friendly corner at hospitals. However, child counselling seem to be absent and non-existent because of ever-increasing child’s bad behaviour and increase in child marriages.

Maunganidze and Chigwedere (2000) defined counselling as a process used to help people achieve greater levels of self-awareness and to actualize latent potential. It is also a process employed to relieve symptoms of emotional or behavioural dysfunction or distress. Counselling services have traditionally been provided albeit by non professionals. Traditional counsellors in Africa have always been elderly or mature close relations such as Uncles, Aunts and close family friends (Sahwira). The social standing of the preferred traditional counsellors varies from country to country.

Child counselling is one aspect of life that has been a component of societies since time immemorial. They are two modes of counselling which are traditional approach and modern approach. The indigenous approach to counselling tactfully captures the importance of the family and the community as a mode of communication for therapy and moral values. In traditional African societies, child counselling was given in various forms, the most common of which were giving advice and sharing wisdom. Traditionally to be a counsellor one was schooled through experience in most cases to handle delicate situations that demanded mental soothing and problem solving. In traditional counselling there were people who did the task of counselling and in many instances, the extended family was the main source of advice for children such as, tete/ubabakazi (aunt), sekuru/umalume(maternal uncle), sahwira( very Close Family Friend), grandparents and traditional healers. Religion also played a pivotal role as far as child counseling is concerned. The modern counseling approach is a result of modernization. Modern child counseling involves professional, commercialized counselors, school oriented counseling, churches,   individuals, families, groups, or institutions, which approaches in a holistic way, social, cultural, economic and emotional issues. Even though they are two schools of thought as far as child counseling is being concerned some scholars such as Ndlovu and Hove are of the view that counseling is not a new practice but an old practice done differently like old wine in new wineskins.

To begin with, counseling is a process which helps children to help themselves, recognize their strengths and identify the resources available to help them overcome problems and make healthy decisions. Counseling was done by a group of elders, be the women or men in many tribes in Southern and Eastern Africa especially during the children’s transitions from childhood to woman hood. Chakuchichi and Zvaiva (2010) argued that children and youth ready for this practice would be taken out of the village to a temporary shelter where they are given adequate knowledge including growing up sex. Among the Shona speaking people, the counselor is known as chipangamazano (the one who gives advices, ideas and solutions. Chakuchichi and Zvaiva (2010) pointed out that it was then possible for people with problems to visit such counsellors and tell them their problems.  This discredits the assertion  that child counseling in African is non-existant.

In line with the above, counseling for the African child exist in the form of group counseling. Group counseling was done by a group of elders, be they women and men in many tribes in Southern and Eastern Africa especially during the performance of rites of passage as the children‟s transition from childhood or womanhood. Chakuchichi and Zvaiva (2010) argued that children and youths ready for this practice would be taken out of the village to a temporary shelter where they were given adequate knowledge including growing up and sex knowledge. This type of counselling was often undertaken as a ritual with certain acts such as circumcision for males to mark the transition into adulthood.  Sommer  and Sandtrock (2005) asserted that in the African cultures, rites of passage are the avenue by which any youth gain access to sacred adult practices, responsibilities, knowledge and sexuality.  Given the above evidence one may argue that child counselling do exist in African.

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In addition primary counselling is still existing and being practiced everywhere in the world. According to Convention on the Rights of Children to (2010) they stress that counselling begins at home as we discuss daily with family members it is being conducted on daily basis. Parents always do counselling to their children in a way they should grow. For example adolescence is a difficult period. It is characterized by paradoxes. Adolescents strive for closeness, and yet fear intimacy and often avoid it. They rebel against control, and yet want direction and structure and are vulnerable to peer pressure. While they ...

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