In both A Small Good Thing and Cathedral Carver clearly shows how important communication is in our lives.
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The Power That Communication Has In Our Lives
Sarah May
English 11 IB, Block A
October 6th, 2011
Proper communication is an essential skill to have. Someone who does not have proper communication skills can find it harder to overcome conflicts with other people. “Cathedral” and “A Small Good Thing” by Raymond Carver both clearly depict the importance of communication between people. Communication can be thought of as such a simple, day-to-day skill, but in reality it is one of the most useful tools to have. Carver uses dialogue and communication of emotions to show how communication with others can help us through our problems.
Being able to communicate emotions is essential. Both “Cathedral” and “A Small Good Thing” have characters that are unable to do this. In “Cathedral”, Bub has difficulty expressing his feelings—even more, he doesn’t even admit he has feelings, and as a result he does not have a close relationship with his wife and feels awkward meeting a friend of hers. It seems like he feels awkwardly about feelings. His reaction to the heart warming, beautiful love story of Robert and Beulah was “Pathetic.” (262). In “A Small Good Thing” the baker is the character that has issues communicating his emotions. He is extremely abrupt throughout the majority of the story, and seems almost distant to any kind of emotion, so he comes across as “abrupt with her–not rude, just abrupt.” (271). Neither Bub nor the baker is able to properly communicate their feelings. The character that can best communicate his feelings is Robert in “Cathedral”. Despite him being blind, he is jolly, understanding, and pleasant. It is like he carries a sense of calm and wisdom about him. These are attributes that neither of the other said characters has.
Sarah May
English 11 IB, Block A
October 6th, 2011
Proper communication is an essential skill to have. Someone who does not have proper communication skills can find it harder to overcome conflicts with other people. “Cathedral” and “A Small Good Thing” by Raymond Carver both clearly depict the importance of communication between people. Communication can be thought of as such a simple, day-to-day skill, but in reality it is one of the most useful tools to have. Carver uses dialogue and communication of emotions to show how communication with others can help us through our problems.
Being able to communicate emotions is essential. Both “Cathedral” and “A Small Good Thing” have characters that are unable to do this. In “Cathedral”, Bub has difficulty expressing his feelings—even more, he doesn’t even admit he has feelings, and as a result he does not have a close relationship with his wife and feels awkward meeting a friend of hers. It seems like he feels awkwardly about feelings. His reaction to the heart warming, beautiful love story of Robert and Beulah was “Pathetic.” (262). In “A Small Good Thing” the baker is the character that has issues communicating his emotions. He is extremely abrupt throughout the majority of the story, and seems almost distant to any kind of emotion, so he comes across as “abrupt with her–not rude, just abrupt.” (271). Neither Bub nor the baker is able to properly communicate their feelings. The character that can best communicate his feelings is Robert in “Cathedral”. Despite him being blind, he is jolly, understanding, and pleasant. It is like he carries a sense of calm and wisdom about him. These are attributes that neither of the other said characters has.