How is the relationship between Juliet and her parents presented in the play 'Romeo and Juliet'?

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How is the relationship between Juliet and her parents presented in the play ‘Romeo and Juliet’?

The play ‘Romeo and Juliet’ is one of the most well-known plays written by William Shakespeare. I think he intended to show what life is like for women in a society ruled by men; men were seen to be superior to women, as women had little rights. Women began life as property of their fathers; once they became married they were passed on to the husband. Shakespeare uses many language techniques throughout the play to comment on men, women and marriage in a society when girls were promised to a man of their fathers choosing. He used this play to criticize arranged marriages. This play is a tragedy, where two people, from opposing families that despise each other, meet and instantly fall in love. This essay is going to explore how the relationship with Juliet and her parents is presented in the play, and how it changes rapidly throughout.

Firstly, in Act 1 Scene 2 Lord Capulet is having a discussion with Paris regarding Juliet, Paris wishes to marry Juliet, however Capulet says “My child is yet a stranger in the world”. This means he thinks that Juliet is too young to be wed; he also says they should wait two more summers before she is ready to get married. But, he will agree if Juliet agrees because he believes Juliet should have a say in the matter. Paris replies by saying “Younger than she are happy mothers made”. Capulet contradicts that by saying “And too soon marred are those so early made”. This shows Capulet is very caring towards Juliet as he wants her to enjoy her life whilst she is young. It is unusual that Capulet said this because Juliet would not normal be given a choice in the matter, especially when the suitor is wealthy and handsome. In my opinion arranged marriages are cruel, but it was a perfectly normal thing to experience in the 1500 hundreds. Also in this scene Capulet declares “Earth hath swallowed all my hopes but she”. This reveals to the reader that Juliet is Capulet’s only child, and that hemay have tried for a child many times  or his children might have died before she was born, this helps us understand why he behaves the way he does toward Juliet. In this scene Capulet appears to be an untraditional father as he does not force Juliet into an unwanted marriage. Therefore Capulet is presented as a kind and caring father, not wanting to push his child into something she might not want to do; when he speaks of her he is very respectful. Capulet acts as you would expect a father in the modern world to, he is very protective of his daughter.

On the other hand, Lady Capulet and Juliet’s relationship is not as close; she is hardly involved in her daughter’s life. In Act 1 Scene 3 Lady Capulet and the nurse discuss Juliet’s age; she will be fourteen on Lammas Eve (31st of July). Lady Capulet doesn’t know her daughter’s age as she says “She’s not fourteen”, the nurse starts to remember that Juliet is the same age as her own daughter, and that Juliet was born late on Lammas Eve “Come Lammas-eve at night she shall be fourteen”. This shows that Juliet and her mother do not have a genuine relationship.The nurse had raised Juliet since she was a baby, this would have been traditional in the 1500 hundreds, and they have a very heartfelt relationship. The nurse appears to be devoted to Juliet, she takes great risk in helping her and she tries to guide her through life in the best way she can. It was ordinary for a mother to not get attached to her child as the death rate for children was immense in those days, and as we found out Lady Capulet has tried for a baby many times, she might be fearful of losing Juliet too and so apprehensive to form any sort of relationship with her. Lady Capulet then expresses Paris’s wish to marry Juliet, Juliet replies by saying “it is an honour that I dream not of”. Lady Capulet begins giving her reasons why she should marry Paris, Juliet responds “I’ll look to like, if looking liking move; but no more deep will I endart mine eye than your consent gives strength to make it fly”. This suggests that she will observe Paris to see if she is fond of him, but she will not let herself fall for him any more than her mother’s permission allows.

I believe Juliet’s father appears more loving and considerate toward Juliet than her mother because Lady Capulet is attempting to force Juliet into marriage with Paris whereas Lord Capulet is permitting her to make her own decisions. But this might be perceived in a different way; Lady Capulet might be forcing her into the marriage so she can have satisfying life with a respectable husband.

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