Romeo and Juliet

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How does Shakespeare show the changing relationship between Juliet and her parents in Act 3 Scene 5?

Juliet’s relationship with her father at the beginning of the play was not a normal relationship between a father and a daughter in that period of time. Usually there was conflict between father and daughter as in many societies daughters were considered to be regarded as property, to be given marriage to the most suitable man who offers. Lord Capulet is not like this at the beginning of the play, he tells Paris that he considers Juliet to be far too young for marriage and that she is still a child. He asks him for her to have two more summers as a child left before marriage. He is very concerned that many young brides die from childbirth because they have married and had children far too early.

“But saying o’er what I have said before:
My child is yet a stranger in the world;
She hath not seen the change of fourteen years;
Let two more summers wither in their pride
Ere we may think her ripe to be a bride.”

However, Juliet’s relationship with her mother is totally different. Lady Capulet has obviously never spent much time with Juliet and a prime example of this is when she goes to talk to Juliet about the noble Paris wanting to marry to her. In Act 1 Scene 3 Lady Capulet sends the nurse out but then when she realises that it would not be as easy as she thought it might be recalls her into the room so as to help her if she could not cope on her own. She also knows that Juliet and the Nurse have a much closer relationship than they do because the Nurse has been looking after Juliet for all of Juliet’s life. She was her wet-nurse and breast fed her when she was a baby. The Nurse has looked after her since. The language between Juliet and her mother is very formal; “Madam, I am here. What is your will?”

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“This is the matter. Nurse, give leave a while;
We must talk in secret. (
NURSE begins to leave)
      Nurse, come back again;
I have remembered me, thou’s hear our counsel.
Thou know’st my daughter’s of a pretty age.”

At the beginning of the scene the atmosphere is tense as Romeo has only just left Juliet’s bed chambers. Before Lady Capulet enters her room, Juliet expresses her surprise at her mother’s visit.

“Who is it that calls? It is my lady mother.
Is she not down so late, or up so early?
What unaccustomed cause procures her hither?”

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