• Join over 1.2 million students every month
  • Accelerate your learning by 29%
  • Unlimited access from just £6.99 per month

Explain how our life stage developments parallel what society expects of us in terms of our relationships. Consider areas such as, friendships, companionship, intimate relationships, psychological needs, familial demands and maturity.

Extracts from this document...

Introduction

Explain how our life stage developments parallel what society expects of us in terms of our relationships. Consider areas such as, friendships, companionship, intimate relationships, psychological needs, familial demands and maturity. In this essay, I propose to examine the Adolescent stage in development, in order to determine what is expected of the developing teenager, in regards to the rest of society. It will critically investigate many aspects of an adolescents' life, in terms of relationships with their peers, as well as how they view themselves. It will collaborate statements from sociologists and psychologists alike, in order to establish how and why adolescence is a life stage which conflicts with the expectations that society hold about them. Throughout our lives we develop through various different stages of development, from birth, right through to death, adolescence, however, is just one of these stages. Adolescence is a period of our development that virtually no one passed through without some degree of trauma, big or small. It is a time where we develop both mentally and physically from a child, into an adult. The teenage years are fraught with pain, anguish, uncertainty, confusion and self-image. It is a time when emotions run high and patience is low, and the urge for freedom is confronted with parental restrictions. ...read more.

Middle

This is very difficult for some, as many, although they have the physical body of an adult, intellectually, they are still a child. Furthermore, teenagers are expected to make informed choices about careers etc. and expected to act in a mature manor, whilst still being treated by society as a child. Social scientists would agree that an identity search and new self-discoveries characterise an adolescent's psychological, as well as social development. The search by teenagers, for identity affects not only the parent - child relationship, but also moral development, school as well as peer interactions. Erikson (1980) proposed the nuclear conflict of "identity versus role confusion" as characterised in adolescence. He felt that adolescents need time to experiment with many different roles before they settle into a particular one. Erikson also suggested that young love is usually more conversational than sexual because they need to project their developing self-image confidentially, to a second person, and then have it reflected back to them. Erikson also suggested that the intimate relationships that are formed during adolescence, are usually short lived and shouldn't be taken too seriously. They are merely a way for the impressionable teenager to reciprocate feelings and emotions with someone of the opposite sex. Peer groups give the developing teenager a sense of belonging, when their own families they belong to become less interactive. ...read more.

Conclusion

Fortunately, most parents can remember what it was like to be that age, and do sympathise to an extent with them, realising that their children will grow out of their teenage years with a different outlook on their family, as well as society as a whole. Overall, this essay examined how adolescence, in some ways, but not all, parallels what society expects of us in terms of relationships. It examined what various researchers, such as Erikson stated about intimate relationships, and how, they are used as a stepping-stone for relationships further in life. All in all, this essay encompasses what it is like for a teenager, growing up into a world were nothing is for certain and their peer group is where they turn for support, more so than their parents. Adolescence is an extremely confusing time when a teenager is expected to make important as well as mature decisions about various aspects of their life, however other decisions of their life are totally in the hands of their parents. It is therefore only inevitable that there is a conflict of interests on both parts, however, the adolescent stage doesn't last forever. And so very soon, most adolescents progress onto adult hood, using their teenage experiences, both good and bad, as a guide for what they do and achieve in terms of relationships, later in life. 0012286 Understanding Relationships 1 ...read more.

The above preview is unformatted text

This student written piece of work is one of many that can be found in our GCSE Child Development section.

Found what you're looking for?

  • Start learning 29% faster today
  • 150,000+ documents available
  • Just £6.99 a month

Not the one? Search for your essay title...
  • Join over 1.2 million students every month
  • Accelerate your learning by 29%
  • Unlimited access from just £6.99 per month

See related essaysSee related essays

Related GCSE Child Development essays

  1. Marked by a teacher

    child development - breast-feeding versus bottle-feeding.

    4 star(s)

    When making formula milk, it is possible to get the mixture wrong and make it too strong, too weak or too hot. There is a lot of work involved in washing and sterilising all of the equipment that is needed for bottle feeding.

  2. Child A has varied needs and I have planned as shown in the assignment ...

    If a child is not interested or unable to do the task they may become demotivated. * Supply Teacher - During the Literacy observation (Appendix A) a supply teacher was taking the lesson, although he is a permanent member he is new to the school and the change of routine could have made a difference to the child's behaviour.

  1. DISCUSS HOW ONE CHILDHOOD CONDITION AFFECTS THE NORMAL GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT OF A CHILD ...

    Although height and weight are most important in physical growth, in girls who develop diabetes before puberty, the onset of

  2. The main aim of this paper is to compare and contrast parental rights and ...

    Another area that needs reformation is the law that governs affiliation of issue in the patrilineal system of law. It has been observed that the father of the children born out of an illegitimate union is not compelled to maintain the children.

  1. Health and Social care

    In order for the staff to follow the baby's home routine, parents are asked to supply the milk normally used at home. This helps the child to feel at ease within the nursery and therefore settle in quickly. Emotionally, the child will still feel secure as their old routine is

  2. Why family structures are changing.

    In order for John to develop his intellectual needs he need to be given game that will challenge him the games or toy such as fisher price try to develop his memory and hand to eye coordination. Mary who is now becoming a young woman has very different needs, Mary's

  1. All of these poems deal with parents' relationships with and reflections on their children.Plath, ...

    tightly in the womb, while 'moon-skulled' would be describing the shape of the baby's head while still developing, the round smoothness with roughly carved features not yet fully defined and maybe the colour of the scan, a similar dark grey yet glowing in places, a similar shade to the moon on some nights.

  2. Development through the life stages

    Coming to being nearly 3 years of age, this is now the stage of the famous question ?why?? They will now also test their parents and say ?no?. Emotional and Social Development Loving relationships give young children a sense of comfort, safety, confidence and encouragement.

  • Over 160,000 pieces
    of student written work
  • Annotated by
    experienced teachers
  • Ideas and feedback to
    improve your own work